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best tip - stop buying shit you don't need and throw\give shit away you don't use.

Moving to another continent with just two suitcases

When's the last time you actually used the item, whether it's clothing, an appliance, dishes, etc? Some things only have a special purpose (holiday decorations, seasonal clothing), but if the item has no special purpose and you haven't used it in the past 5 years and holds no sentimental value, you should toss or donate it.

A note on sentimental value: If you are tying sentimental value to EVERYTHING or dozens of things of the same type (I don't mean a collection, I'm talking like "My dad died 10 years ago and instead of keeping 1 or 2 shirts he really liked, I'm keeping his entire wardrobe in 10 crappy old carboard boxes in my living room and they're all full of clothes moths now, but I won't throw them away because they have sentimental value to me" kind of behavior), this is an unhealthy coping mechanism that you should address with yourself or with help from a therapist.

Once you have your stuff narrowed down, find a place for each item, and then that's where that thing lives. The place they live must be reasonable and logical. Clean clothes live in the closet/dresser, they do not live on the floor, draped across furniture, or in the hamper after you've washed/dried them.

Appliances live in one spot on your kitchen counter, or in a cabinet/cupboard. Books live on the bookshelf unless you're actively reading them. Knick knacks live on the shelf, not the floor or in a box on the floor because you plan to some day put them on the shelf and just haven't gotten around to it. If you're not gonna put them on the shelf within the next month, box that shit up and put the box in a closet/garage/attic, etc. Storage is an acceptable place for a thing to live, provided you have the room and you're not just accumulating crap and storing it like a squirrel with nuts that are then forgotten about a month later.

FOOD GETS STORED IN THE KITCHEN. Do not store the half-eaten box of crackers on your nightstand or on the floor next to the couch. Do you want ants? That's how you get ants.

Use the Poop Method

"If this object had poop on it, would I wash it, or throw it away?"

Break your project down into bite size goals. With rewards.

Start with cleaning the bathroom. Take a nice long bath after.

Focus on the rubbish in your bedroom, go for a small walk to the variety store. (Consider having a monster drink)

When you come home focus on loose clothing on the floor. Put them in the wash.

Carry on this routine. If you trust yourself not to be too distracted play some old DVDs in the background.

Carry on with this pattern, doesn't need to be all in the same day.

Did you do the dishes yet?

1. Don't buy crap
2. Don't keep crap (recycle, don't trash them)
3. Stop wishing of buying more crap.

Any impression this incredibly wise list of advice could be based on personal experience (and on multiple failures at following them) would be correct. My life changed and the clutter vanished the day I stopped wanting to buy always more stuff and decided to only keep what was... worth keeping aka actually of any use/importance.

Old stuff goes on the local buy&sell or eBay if it's worth enough used. Otherwise it's on the front boulevard with a spray painted FREE sign next to whatever I want gone. It's very rare whatever I dump out there isn't taken within minutes. Don't hoard.

Shit tons of shelves and cabinets. Get stuff off the surfaces you use all the time, or would if it wasn't covered in shit. Now you can dust the home and vacuum easily too!

No impulse purchases. Do you really want it, let alone need it? Discipline.

Get a filing cabinet if you don't have one already for a job you do. Just a two drawer is enough.

I've thus far avoided feeling the need to host my own garage or yard sale, but that might be a good place to start if it's feasible.

Get rid of stuff you don't need.

Yes, you might save 20 bucks in five years by saving that plastic widget, but you'd have to pay loads more than 20 bucks to store that thing somewhere.

Also that "sparks joy"-lady has a point.

Spend a few weeks camping or hostelling. Then you'll see how many of your possessions you really need.

Only keep things that are functional, attractive or sentimental. I like the poop plan for things that are on the edge of these.

Occasionally get drunk and break things. When sober throw Away broken things.

Don't invite clutter, as in stop buying so many things. If you can't break that habit then it will just get back to where it was.

If you are keeping something, is the total possible savings by keeping it around worth the lost space that could be used for something else? If it was gone would it be easier to clean? Is wasting time managing it existing in your space worth it?

Keep some keepsakes around, just keep it manageable. One or two tubs is plenty if you only go through them once a decade or less. Yeah, you might save some money by keeping an old toy around for grandkids, but there will also be newer toys and odds are they won't want old stuff enough to keep boxes of them around. Maybe keep a few of your favorites so you can share stories.

Unless you really enjoy changing decorations constantly only a couple backups of regular things are needed at most. You don't need a dozen sets of bedding. You don't need a full backup set of silverware.

I don't need the inner workings of the last three generations of PC builds, but I keep telling myself that I will use them for playing around with Linux and they only take up a small tub so I am OK it since I got rid of three tubs of the kiddos childhood toys she never really played with. Kept a tub of the ones she liked in case she has kids and wants to pass them on. One tub of a thing is fine if there aren't too many total tubs.

Note:tub is my unit of measurement since having these discussions with family are hard to have without something to represent volume.

Reduce and reuse. Recycling is the last resort.

Donate to thrift stores. sell on eBay, Craigslist, marketplace, swap meets, yard sales, etc. Give to friends and neighbors.

Keep what you need, keep what makes you happy. Judge what you actually need to keep. I got rid of so many things before moving, some I am happy I did and some I regret. But since I regret it, I know that I may find that same item again and to keep an eye for it. At least I can always get those items again, so getting rid of it wasn’t that bad.

If you haven't used it in a year, get rid of it.

It's very simple.

Any time you set something down, keep this thought in the back of your mind: If you can put it down, you can put it away.

Think really hard before you ditch something. I got rid of a ton of stuff when I moved abroad and I regret far too much of it.

If you haven't touched it in a year, get rid of it. Exceptions of course for sentimental items or things like legal documents.

• use it, clean it, put it away
• box and label
• big things get used once a month
• medium things get used biweekly
• small things get used weekly
• tiny things get used every six months
• if it's not being used outside of that, it's on a list to get donated

lol

step one, if I get rid of this will someone else want it? Do I still want it.

get a good box, like an apple box or a fruit box

keep it someplace and put the first thing you LIKE but yeah maybe its just clutter, into it

treat all the things as something that you want, something you like but could live without, trash

once that box fills up, give it to a non-profit charity for donation

What sorts of clutter items do you have?