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[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 week ago

Get high and scroll Lemmy, apparently

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 week ago

Work to solve problems. Not on a fixed schedule, but my choosing.

Also, long walks and visiting people I like.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Work on Free Open Source Software. Seriously, I fucking love software engineering and I can't really imagine doing anything else with my life. In fact, that's kinda my current plan - work towards financial independence and then work on things that matter to me, on my own terms. I really hope I won't get burned out somewhere in the process.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Same here. I wanna study compsci, do some research into things I pick up as being interesting along the way, then work on FOSS for as much as I can (without burning myself out, or anything like that). The world doesn't appreciate FOSS enough, but it could very well be the future of computing, as our capitalistic society quickly gets fucked up :')

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I'm a licensed electrician. I do construction for my job.

If I didn't need to work to support myself and my family, I'd offer my services as a licensed electrician to my community at-cost. I'd charge for materials, but not my own labor. Basically, just use the skills I have to support others in my community who could benefit from those skills.

But I also wouldn't work anything close to 40 hours/week.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago

I’d start with gardening, fishing, road tripping, camping, hiking, but I think that might eventually not be stimulating enough. I’d probably pickup a hobby that would enable artistic expression. Maybe pottery, or stained glass?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

Get on my bike and see how far it could take me. And when I was done with that I would go build bike trails for my community.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

Painting, drawing. General arts. Travel. Eating adventures. Fitness. Electronics and automation. Programming. Health focus.

And I'd make my point and click adventure game. Finally.

The dream

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

Get a proper sleep.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I would do nothing while also not stressing out about doing nothing.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

"Know what I did yesterday? Nothing. I did nothing. And it was everything I thought it would be."

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Make music, write terrible sci-fi, and publish economics research (assuming we haven’t reached post-scarcity yet).

Basically I’d have time to actually dedicate myself to my hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

Travel, camp, travel. Play with dog

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

All the things I do for fun and hobbies I would do a lot more. Which would likely be the following:

  • Exercise (running in the warm months and skiing in the cold)
  • TTRPGs (I might move from 1 day of the week into two, and assuming everyone else has the same deal play in-person instead of digitally)
  • Reading (books and more books)

But mostly I would work on living the permaculture / herbalism fantasy.

  • Do a lot more herbal formulation and
  • Maybe open the small apothecary to sell things at Art fairs and other makers markets.
  • Turn my urban yard into a full food forest to help grow some of my own food, and herbs. (I want to have an urban oasis of edible trees, bushes and other useful plants)
  • Volunteer more a local prairie restoration group that I have worked with in the past
  • Finally spend some time gorilla gardening on open lots and sides of alleyways around my neighborhood to spread the plant love.
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

do you want a list?! I have adhd and 1.324 different hobbies and projects in different stages of completeness. If I had free time I would get 200 more hobies and start 200 more project without finishing the ones before lol

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

I'm a software engineer so I'd probably seek a way to use my skills in a way that benefits people, possibly something tied to volunteering work I already do. And also contribute to some open source project.

I'd try to maintain a somewhat regular working schedule but with fewer hours per day than I currently spend at my job. Maybe I'd travel and work from different places.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I'd love to keep working and volunteering. I'd still contribute to society and the social network that comes with it, but with none of the burden of having to earn money to survive.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Volunteer at various non-profits. I am (sadly) one of those people that "need" to work in some capacity in order to fill fulfilled. I also need structure, which I'm not very good at building for myself. I need to be held accountable (such as being expected to show up to work at a certain time), and work has always helped me do that.

I'm about to leave my current job with no back-up plan, and while my savings and partner will provide for me for the rest of the year, I'm kinda dreading not having structure. I'll probably volunteer somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

So many hobbies

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Play video games. Bake bread. Learn to code. Create music. Maybe create a game of my own some day. Release it 100% for free because all my needs are met.

... oh, and sex. Lots of sex. But I think that goes without saying

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I would work on open-source software and play games, which is what I already do, I'd just have more free time to do it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I'd like to think I'd actually do all the art I'm too fucking stressed to sit down and focus on. Maybe make a video game or two.

My long term wish has always been to fuck off to somewhere not-too-warm and tropical, and write stories from a place where I can see the sea.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You're describing retirement. And, boy have I spent a LOT of time thinking about what that looks like.

A lot of people have lists of things they'd do, see, learn, or be. I had one too, but it kept fucking changing depending on where I was in life and what my interests were.

Any list I had always felt restrictive. Here's where I ended up instead...

I would put my energy and attention only on the things that I want to put them on at any given time.

I guess some call that living in the moment, but I call it retirement.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What is retirement? A time when you will have enough money to just exist in whatever way you desire? Sounds fake.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Work so that others can also have their needs met.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

House in the middle of the woods, with internet connection. It's the weird eremite techno wizard life for me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Ride my Motorcycle and brew beer. Then go work out. Hang with friends. Hike, swim, explore the world.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm terrified because I don't really have an answer.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I think that's okay, because that just means your answer is something like "take some time to breathe and introspect about what I care about when I am given the space to care about stuff", or "try out a bunch of stuff I didn't have time or money for before, to see what seizes my passions".

I mean, it's not okay — it's a fucking injustice that so many of us are deprived of the opportunity to explore what we would do if we were free to live as we chose, but it's okay in the sense that it's not your fault, in case that's what you were feeling

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Pick up learning new languages and how to draw and make music. Create the things i think would be awesome but nobody else wants to and i cant because i dont have the money to learn efficently the skills required. Live in a nice little house in the woods with someone who loves me for who i am. Eat healthy and exercise.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

DM or GM tabletop games for groups

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I would spend a lot of time tending my garden, growing rare produce to share with the community, and crafting.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

That's my current situation after retiring a few years ago. I stay busy with personal software projects, running a weekly in-person D&D campaign and playing in others, cooking, 3d design and printing, Arduino/ESP and electronics, woodworking, reading, TV & movies, and random crafting and other stuff that comes up.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I'd work on cars. And my house. It feels like I'm fighting entropy, I fix one thing and find 2 more problems in the process. But I know some of that is just the previous home owner doing a bunch of diy.

Learn to wood work and build furniture. I have a deep, deep loathing for flat pack furniture.

Garden. I'd love to have a proper garden.

Honestly. I'd just like to be rid of my anxiety over finances.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I have ADHD and my hobby is collecting hobbies. I don’t typically get bored. I would likely need to do some side gig to supplement buying things for new hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I think the saying “if more money wouldn’t change the way you live your life, then you’re already rich” applies to me pretty well. I don’t think my life would be all that different. Maybe I’d spend more time working on my own projects instead of customers’, but generally speaking, there’s nothing I’m not doing because of financial limitations.

My ultimate goal, though, would be to buy a small old farm with some land and spend the rest of my adult life working on that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I achieved this 2 years ago. I spend my time rock climbing, travelling to rock climbing, hanging with friends, lifting, running, tackling little diy projects, working part time in a fun job to get some extra spending money, and trying to sleep with as many hot women as possible.

This is a lot of fun, and I highly recommend it.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

This depends. But based on how much I have, one of these:

Open a small bar/tapas place in my neighborhood.

Travel

Do what I do when not working - garden, read, exercise, take care of the land & the animals, go see live music.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Create art. Writing screenplays and books. Painting, gardening, working out, traveling, seeing live music, volunteer with whatever great organization I happen to be into at the time. Spend more time in my community. Have children.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Art and music.

Science research.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Judging by what I've seen lately: crime and opression to maintain my status because I only understand the world through the lenses of artficial scarcity and zero sum game theory.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Be a librarian. I always felt like being a custodian to knowledge was a noble pursuit, and I respect librarians alot for it. I never went into the field myself because I couldn't afford the schooling just to get a job that in my area, doesn’t pay very well. If pay wasn't a problem? Hoo boy!

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

You know that guy that makes videos about how to live with Neolithic technology? That.

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Work on myself for a good long while, then live a quiet happy life with some cats and, should i be so lucky, a partner i have mutual love and respect with.

See how deep the ADHD-hobby-collection rabbit hole can go 😁

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Someone asked me this question recently and I had a minor existential crisis.

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