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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I know this isn't 100% on topic but I recommend you want this TED Talk by Esther Perel about infidelity. It might give you some different perspective about cheating and how to deal with it. Take a watch and see what she has to say. She is highly regarded and a very helpful.

I do think you should go after having a conversation with your ex-wife and child about it. Talk with your child about what they hope they are getting out of it and set some expectations about you wanting to spend most of your time with them. Tell them you might be angry about the situation which has nothing to do with them. Do the same with your ex-wife and say you want to go but you might be angry at points. Say it out loud so everyone is aware before it happens.

You can't fully disconnected from these people since you have a kid with them without hurting your child. Its going to be tough and rough but this might be a good crash course into your new relationship with your ex-wife and her new husbands. You don't have to like them but be friendly enough in front of your kid.

Also free fancy trip. Count it has blood money for the infidelity if that helps you

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

This is the correct response since they all co-parent a kid together they will run into each other in the future. You don't have to be friends with this person but you got to be friendly. Give it a chance but make sure you have time to process and boundaries about what you think you can handle. This isn't for you but your kid. Be the bigger man

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Layers are the key. Lots of small layers especially something sweat wicking on the bottom layers. It's good to have lots of layers to add and subtract

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Ah aristocratic English man. What haven't you made terrible

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

My house is decorated with either items from the antique store or from IKEA. There are reasons for both but you need to have unique and mass produced things. We have turned too much for the mass produced

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

If you have a bunch of sales data, maybe you can focus on deriving purchase patterns and build a simple recommendations engine. If you want to focus on marketing, you could try lead classification. Ideas depend on the domain of the company you work for

This is where we get the fun part of definitions. Depending on what people think AI is this aren't AI. Most people mean GEN-AI aka the new fancy shiny thing. These are boring old machine learning, data science, statistical learning, data mining etc. (depending on your definition)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

I live in the upper Midwest so I pretty much always have supplies in case we get snowed in. When there's a big storm on the radar we get specific meals for 2+ days. It never really keeps us trapped instead for more than a few hours

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago
  1. Original is better. Also watch it in the original German with subtitles like all foreign films
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Life is messy and boundaries blur. Boundaries in relationships aren't static things and can change. Just keep talking and it and it's will be fine. You might not get exactly what you want but it will be better in the long run

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

This is a great point that making a plan to stay friends can work and morph a relationship. It's not the same but nothing stays the same.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Having mixed gendered friends isn't that weird even those you might have hooked up with. What do you think highschool is?

Be honest and make sure the friend is on the same page.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I agreed with you until the last paragraph.

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