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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Ebay, unfortunately.

Ebay has a long history of being a...controversial company.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

The manufacturer's site.

[–] [email protected] 53 points 3 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

follow brands and creators, not stores. shop directly from their sites or support local stores

even better: reduce, reuse

most products end up in landfills, buy used, ebay, local groups, thrift, etc

learn to upholster clothing, bake bread, etc, take money away from corporations

[–] [email protected] 47 points 3 days ago (4 children)

As a small business owner (blacksmithing), I fully support this. However, about 85% of our business is through an Etsy storefront, about 10% through Amazon, with the remainder through our own site.

I'd appreciate advice on additional storefronts.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Ebay. I buy new and used things there fairly frequently.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Have you looked into selling to reenactors?

They seem willing to pay for handcrafted stuff.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Haven't focused on reenactors specifically. Most of our stuff is home furnishings. Hooks, plant hangers, curtain rods, pot rack bars, drawer pulls, joint braces for woodworking, fireplace hardware, decorative chains (like for chandeliers), etc.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Ren faire folks LOVE stuff like that, you should absolutely see if you have one nearby. If you're in the states, each state usually has one.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

This is what I do too. I try to go directly to the source either online or in person

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

This is great advice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Most small creators do not have their own online stores. They depend on Amazon, eBay, Etsy, or some combination of the three

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Buying a domain and a webhost costs money and people would need a regular income for that

What I'd like to see is some co-op online platform where people can collectively contribute to online costs though a small percentage of fees and / or donations

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

In the USA, Bookshop.org allows you to buy books online, and 10% of sales (different from 10% of profits) support independent bookstores. I have a sort-of local bookstore whose hours don’t work well with my free time. I order online from bookshop.org and designate “my” bookstore to get the 10%. Win win!

Here is more info about bookshop.org

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

This site is pretty cool. Thanks for pointing it out!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is the platform global or america exclusive

Don't use US Defaultism on lemmy, reddit had that problem and I don't want it here on lemmy as well

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

Thanks for pointing that out, I edited my comment.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

I use Geizhals and see wheres the cheapest.

Else it dpends on physical vs speed vs convenience.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

@[email protected] might want to add an edit to your post to get people asking for recomendatation and people giving recommendations to state what country and what locality in that country they are from without acronyms or nicknames

Might also want to state the country you're from as well

Because I'm seeing a lot of what looks like US Defaultism in the comment and lemmy is a global platform

To anyone else reading this comment STATE WHERE YOU'RE FROM IF YOU'RE ASKING FOR RECOMENDATIONS OR GIVING RECOMENDATIONS!

Also this big text is just to get peoples attention so the comment doesn't get buried

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Posted most of this in another thread but I'm glad to spread the word. I usually find things by searching what I want to buy and then adding "-amazon", "-etsy", or "-wayfair".

Some general recs:

B&H Photo or Microcenter for anything electronic or computer related

Sweetwater for music stuff, there's a lot of great small music stores, or marketplaces like Reverb

For clothes, if you have any clothes you already enjoy, go directly to their brand website. If you don't, go to local secondhand shops and touch, handle and try on some clothes to see them in person. I've discovered some brands I like by finding something in a thrift store that was well made but not my size or preferred color.

For house DIY stuff, we order from a local building supply store, but there's also hardwareandtools.com, 1stoplighting, Waysource, Lightbulbs.com, Timothy's Toolbox etc.

For food items, local grocery stores often offer online shopping and delivery. If it's a specialty item or imported the import companies sometimes have their own websites.

For super fast, need it now shipping, Target has a lot of the same things Amazon does and even does same day delivery for an extra fee for certain items.

For something hard to find you can't find another site for, try Ebay.

I do business with all sorts of independent retailers and have only had good experiences with them. These are sites that I've personally bought from but there are a lot of smaller sites just trying to make a place for themselves on the internet

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Your range is pretty broad. For digital media I have found myself using the Library more and more

Libby- ebooks, audiobooks, magazines

Hoopla- music, ebooks, audiobooks, and TV

Kanopy- films and documentaries

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Ebay. Been buying most things through there and it's been nice. As always, check to see if the seller has a good rating and usually it's fine.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Do without. Buy less shit.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

wheres that's peep with the info on the upcoming ActivityPub version of etsy

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Wish and Temu? Sell about 90% of the same shit for pennies on the dollar.

But you also didn't specify that the alternatives have to be ethically superior. 🙃

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Let's say ethically better then, to be more specific and explicit. Although, if we want to talk rock bottom ethically, I think we'd have to go darkweb, no?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Nah my darkweb dealer network is unionized, so it's better for sure.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I guess it depends on whether you want to buy drugs or people.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago

Lots of mid-sized local stores opened web stores during the pandemic, at least here in Europe. I'll often shop at those, even if they're not truly local to where I live.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Idk what a local store is here. Everything is a chain.

Food? Publix or Winn-Dixie. Thats about it, save for the Asian market on the corner and a once a week farmers market that I never seem to be able to attend.

Meds? CVS or Walgreen's. We have a local pharmacy, insurance doesn't cover them.

Electronics? Best buy. There's no mom and pop computer store

Furniture / clothing / household items? Thrift stores maybe?

Big Box stores didn't just reduce mom and pops in my area, it killed them.

The only non-chain stores are for niche products like a smoke shop, the aforementioned Asian market, restaurants, and entertainment venues.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

For electronics try Swappa or Jawa

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Thanks I'll check them out!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I need a local searchable storefront

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Aren't pretty much all storefronts searchable, or is it a Europe thing?

I shop primarily local and find stores with ddg/Google/Google maps. I live in a country where Amazon doesn't exist, and shipping takes at least 3-7 days, so I've always bought stuff from local stores. Of course not everything is sold in a physical store, for which you'll probably have to use ebay.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

For large chain stores that happen to be local, Google is fine. But I can't get an inventory from the local mom&pop grocery. Or even the local game stores that have a website with an inventory, Google doesn't search among them, so I'm stuck going to multiple websites to search by hand.

It's just a pain, and if it's a pain, I'll only do it half as much as I could.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

Bandcamp or 7Digital for music

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

Google shopping or duckduckgo shopping are an easy first step. You can also search the name of the Amazon seller and see if they have their own store.

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[–] [email protected] -4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is that america exclusive or global

I'm replying to a lot of people on this post reminding them not to use US Defaultism

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Dutch and Belgium. Although if you are from there and don't know bol.com you have your head so far in the sand they may miss this post.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

mercadolibre.com is like Amazon, but in the amazon...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Mercado libre is literally the Spanish eBay.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

eBay and Etsy are my go-to alternatives to Amazon. My wife uses Shien for clothes.

All 3 are like Harbor Freight for tools; maybe good, maybe bad, takes some experience and discernment, which can be costly.

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