Nope. That's why I have about 8 really good friends and that's it.
Unfortunately I don't know how to help you. I met my friends in secondary school and we have been friends since then.
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You need to find people that share a common interest with you, like a hobby or sport. That way there is some activity that you can do with them instead of just keeping in touch via social media. I have a regular casual basketball group that I literally don’t interact with online except when scheduling pickup games, but when we do meet up to play, we hang out over dinner afterwards. Same with another set of people that I meet during happy hours in my career field.
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During my days on Reddit, I've had some hangouts with quite a few people with whom I shared some really niche interests. Good times.
Ride a bike. Touch grass. You'll meet someone eventually...
OP how old are you?
And I mean age range. Not exact age.
Linux users groups Maker spaces Artisian guilds (metal working, wood working, etc) Clubs Volunteer with places Get involved in local politics Work a career and network with people
Etc
Social media honestly is very lack luster in mak8ng deeper friendships to me
I use a 3D game like territory for it. Oh, the name of this is real life.
Go to a pub, get drunk.
Go to a real supermarket (without ordering online!).
Wait until you see a random person there.
Smile and say "Nice butt!"
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You don't. For what I've seen is something people are born with it, the perk to make friends in every situation... my younger brother have dozens of friends, actual friends, I have 0. I just live with it.
That's how I've always felt. I've always been the friend of those people. I've only ever made 1 actual, deep connection with a person. And it's deeeeep. And I couldn't tell you how it happened. But I partly feel like I'm losing that, and I won't ever be able to get it back, or replicate it with someone else.