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[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

I've met enough homeless people in San Francisco who live that way on purpose to know that first sentence isn't 100% true.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Everything we put up with in life is a choice, even if the only other option is bad (i.e. suicide). People in a bad situation may say that they choose it, only in order to maintain a sense of control and personal agency. It's not really meaningful to say that some homeless people choose to live that way, unless we know what their alternatives are. And if they have options that most people would consider better, I'd argue that they're not what most people mean by the homeless problem.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

No, I mean they have told me they like living like that; not by consequences of their own actions. Like modern day Diogenes. Just a super minimalistic lifestyle that includes not having a home. There is a scene for that kinda thing in San Francisco.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I'll grant that California might be different because of the climate, but I've heard the same thing from people here in the Midwest, and, well, I'm not sure that I believe them. I got the sense that they didn't leave behind privilege and wealth to live a minimalist life. In a nutshell, they couldn't just at a whim decide to give it up and do something different.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I've got a very small home by choice and it's amazing. Diogenes knew what was up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Suicide isn't an option. I know nobody will believe me, but I've done it. I just woke up in a slightly different parallel universe: this one.

Other people die. The self does not. Death only exists out there.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Yikes. That must have been quite the shock! In any case, I still figure that everything we put up with in life is a choice, although the bad alternatives might be prison, starvation, torture, ostracism, or any number of bad things that happen to living people.