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Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.
Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.
Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren't gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.
Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.
... also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao
Absolutely scandalous
Nice name, Dharma Curious.... I should have made Dharma Chameleon...
I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.
I only date other bi switches.
Hey wyd
You may proceed...
I'm guessing you're in Canada based on your instance so I doubt it would go anywhere. If you're in the Bay Area I'd grab a beer/ slice.
I don't consume alcohol or intelligent creatures, but if you're ever in Waterloo, we can have sex.
Wrestle for top.
You've confused switch for versatile but I'll fight you off for a while.
I'm all of it.