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I am in the US, so financial calculations need to be factored in.

For a moment, I couldn't breathe, felt like I was going to die, then vomitted.

Now heart beating slightly off, not feeling great but not terrible, had mild chest pain earlier in evening...

Kinda feel off. Have medical insurance with large deductible.

Ignore it? Taxi to ER? Call 911? Genuinely don't know and don't like 911 since police are involved.

Also I feel hot, feel burning around my neck.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 minutes ago

I am in the US, so financial calculations need to be factored in.

God I fucking hate what capitalism has done to what should be basic human rights.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

I've had something similar other than the heart rate stuff, and like top comment says it was acid reflux. But if an irregular heart rhythm persists more than you have felt before, then absolutely go!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

**tl;dr ** Probably severe acid reflux but hard to say, use your insurance to get checked out, cops are a non-issue for this kind of call. To the Europeans, yes we know our health system sucks.

First off, I am not a health professional. However, based on somewhat common knowledge, If you're barfing blood or pooping what looks like coffee grinds, immediate 911 call you've got less than 24 hours left. If your chest pain continues, that's highly likely a trip to at least urgent care, don't ignore chest pains. If you woke up choking on your barf, but it settled down and able to catch your breath, and your chest pain is going away it's highly likely acid reflux which can be caused by a lot of different things. Either way you need to get looked at by a doctor soon and not consult the Internet. Your copay is shown on your insurance card for a dr's visit so you can do your financial calculations. 50 to 100 bucks now is better than 500 to 10,000 bucks later.

Don't wait either since you have insurance. Urgent care's usually covered at a more affordable rate. If you get admitted to an ER from the urgent care, MOST halfway decent insurances will cover you so you're not out hundred's of thousands of dollars for a Tylonal. Before the Europeans chime in, yes, health insurance in the US sucks. It's not free. You can talk the hospital down on your bill and you can absolutely renegotiate your minimum payment. Sometimes, if you're nice in talking to both the insurance and the hospital, a grant can be found and you owe nothing. It's a lot of work and time so don't panic when you see the first bill.

So everyone in the US knows, cops are never involved in a 911 call unless there's a crime in progress or there is an immediate threat to the responding EMS team. Don't call 911 with some kind of threat. Obviously you'll be in a panic and the 911 operator will only send what is needed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Learned recently that reflux can cause throat cancer or some shit. Listen to what your body is saying.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 hours ago

This was me when I had Norovirus, though the puking was preceded by firehose-level shits until I took an Imodium, after which it switched ends before deciding on some rather unpleasant alternating events

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I had those issues before the doctor diagnosed GERD/Reflux, and prescribed medication. Now I take a Famotidine every day, twice if I've had something particularly spicy. I never have that problem anymore.

I finally did something about it when I aspirated in the middle of the night, like you did. It can actually give you pneumonia, which happened to me.

BTW, a banana can act as a pretty good acid treatment in a pinch., like in the middle of the night.

Also, which side you sleep on makes a difference, too. Your esophagus goes straight down the middle of your chest, until it reaches your stomach, which makes a left turn. So when you sleep on your left side, the opening to the esophagus is above the stomach, making it difficult for food to slip into it.

But if you sleep on your right side, your stomach is above the opening, and any undigested contents are up against that opening.. if it's weak, or opens, gravity draws that food into your esophagus, causing reflux.

So sleeping on your left side is preferred.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

Op, you alive?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 hours ago

You definitely want to get that checked out

Vomit, burning, heart pain etc... Are all in the "pretty alarming" category

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

Yes. I personally wouldn't call a wee-woo wagon, but it's def not normal.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

Here's some general life advice: if your body (especially your heart) starts doing things it shouldn't be doing you should probably talk to a doctor. You have insurance, this is what it's for. Hit up your nearest urgent care.

Edit: I'm gonna go ahead and add this because I've now had two people tell me how ignorant I am of the US healthcare system: I am a disabled American in my 50s who has been dealing with serious medical problems my entire life. I understand the 'system' far too well. But I'm gonna state what is apparently an unpopular opinion in this community: being dead sucks a lot worse than having medical debt.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Healthcare, in the US, is still pretty expensive even if you have insurance. Chosing between maybe dying or being disabled, and being homeless is pretty common place here in the best country in the world.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

I am a disabled American in my 50s, I have dealt with serious medical issues my entire life, including the ones that have made me unable to work for the last ~15 years. I understand the healthcare 'system', such as it is, far too well. But you know what sucks worse than being broke? Being dead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

We're not talking about being dead vs being broke. We're talking about being MAYBE dead vs being homeless, hungry, and unable to clothe your children.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Health insurance exists for medical emergencies; vomiting and chest pains are signs of a heart attack which, I dunno where you're from, but where I'm from that sounds like a medical emergency to me.

I get that the US healthcare system is bad and exploitative and absolutely leaves people in crippling, life-altering debt. But one fucking trip to urgent care is not going to render you homeless unless something is very seriously wrong with you in which case see also: being dead also sucks pretty hard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Personally, I've seen a lot of doctors and received very little help for my considerable trouble, and more than a little harm. I was fortunate that I rarely have to pay for medical service (but have to forgo it when I do) but if I had been paying all this time, it would be very easy for me to choose feeding my hypothetical children for the current week over another probably useless visit.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Do you have any chest, arm or back pain? Do you have a pulse oximeter?

Can you go to a minor ER? If you hadn't said your heartbeat was off, I would say not necessarily a big concern at this point, but this also sounds similar to what happened to a friend of mine with an aortic dissection.

She thought it was food poisoning at first, finally went to a minor med, they refused to treat her bc her and sent her to the ER ASAP. She ended up in the hospital for several weeks.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Get checked immediately chest pain and committing are signs of a heart attack

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Could be a simple case of reflux - when some stomach valve doesn't stay completely closed during sleep and lets gastric juices and food creep upwards.

But the best medical advice is not to seek medical advice from randos online. Go to urgent care and see what they say, or at the very least lookup if there is a nurse hotline where you live and call it.

[–] [email protected] 98 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Frame 1: “Hey USA, how’s it going?”

Frame 3: this post

Frame 4: “Jesus Christ…”

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 hours ago

I couldn't be arsed to do it in a higher quality

[–] [email protected] 14 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

"i hope i don't have to sell my gun collection to survive"

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 15 hours ago

You have medical. Get checked out. Said the guy who hates going to doctors / hospitals. Be safe.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Hope you're doing better now. As someone who works in the medical field, it can be a real bitch to navigate everything.

For the future: Nobody here knows your baseline. If you tell any clinical medical worker you have had chest pain followed by difficulty breathing and vomiting they're very likely to tell you to go to the ED/ER (Emergency Department / Room). Speaking for myself only, that would depend how stable I feel following the vomiting incident and if the chest pain persisted, and baseline conditions and history (e.g., do you have a history of hypertension, high cholesterol, overweight, etc.? When was your last physical exam?).

We also don't know the full context on what you mean by couldn't breathe and feeling like you could die. For example, did you have a major GERD / Acid-Reflux incident (could explain mild chest pain)? Did you eat something and have an allergic anaphylactic reaction followed by a surge of adrenaline from your fear of death and a panic attack followed by vomiting? Have you had sinus congestion say from a cold and a glob of postnasal drip obstructing your airways? Do you take drugs? And yes, it's possible you also had a heart attack.

Worth noting: Urgent Care has limited resources beyond an X-ray machine, usually. The moment you mention chest pain, they'll hook you up to an ECG to take a reading. If your vital signs are okay (blood pressure, SPO2, heart-rate, temperature) and your ECG reads no active heart attack, then they might just refer you to a cardiologist follow-up. If on the other hand there are signals of a recent or active heart attack, they will pretty much demand you get loaded up into an ambulance and send you to the nearest hospital with a cath lab (due to liability on themselves). You'll thus be triple-dipping costs from urgent care, ambulance, and hospital when you might've been better off going straight to the ER.

ER will be a higher co-pay with insurance and absurdly costly without (but there are options, some ethical some not surrounding this). The good news is unlike Urgent Care, they cannot refuse treatment based on lack of insurance, if that's your predicament. Urgent Care will.

Also when you call 911 for a medical emergency, police aren't going to be involved. ACAB rhetoric aside, DO NOT REFUSE TO CALL 911 BECAUSE OF THIS. The moment the dispatcher sees this is a medical emergency, nearby fire departments or ambulances will be notified.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Welcome to America. Where medical advice is asked to a bunch of weebs on the internet over going to the fucking hospital when you feel ill because of money concerns... I hate it here.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Welcome to like more than 50% of the world.

This entire fucking planet is a dystopia.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

America is probably the reason those other places don't have health care as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Welcome to like more than 50% of the world

But it's the bottom 50%. And, in 100 years, it has fallen to 50%.

Trending is good.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

Alright. Way too many socialists in this post who don't know how 'Murica works, god dammit. Here's real advice:

You woke up, so you aren't dead yet. In most cases, that's a good sign. Give it 30 minutes. If you feel better, great! This is where I preposterously tell you to follow up with your family doctor and we both have a good chuckle.

(Edit to explain: we have no idea who our family doctor is and we haven't been there in so long we would be considered a new patient.)

If you don't feel better, might well give it another hour. Most of the damage from a heart attack or stroke is done in the first 30 minutes, so you're probably not going to get any worse.

If you're still not dead after that, you're probably clear to make it through the weekend.

Next question is do you have sick leave? If not, congratulations, you're fine! If you do have sick leave, go ahead and make an appointment first thing Monday. They won't do anything, just send you for labs, maybe or just leave that part to the specialist they will refer you to.

So now it's 6 weeks later and the specialist is calling to confirm the appointment you're forgotten about. Do you feel better or are you out of sick leave? Congratulations, you're fine.

Next, is your deductible over 10% of your annual income? (5% if it's after Nov.15. You're gonna wind up paying that whole thing for diagnostic tests this year and the actual treatment will hit you after Jan 1 and you're double fucked.) If it is, congratulations, you're fine!

If you reach this point, you probably are in need of medical attention and can afford it. Congratulations on getting the help you need.

Bask in the superiority of the best healthcare in the world, you European nancies!

Obviously the tone is meant to be humorous, but this is basically the reality. The only thing I've omitted is that you can just go to the hospital and get the treatment you need and then avoid answering unknown numbers for 7 years. I have yet to see anyone sued over medical debt.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Its actually funny (in a fucked up way, that is), because for appointments, you have to pre-pay, so if you are already bankrupt, you might as well just go to the ER where you do not have to pre-pay.

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[–] [email protected] 115 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

> Makes thread asking if you should go to the ER

> Literally everyone says to go to the ER

> Doesn't go to the ER

ok

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

secretlyaddictedtolinux

Probably just Linux withdrawl.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 42 points 23 hours ago

I suppose this person needs some advice from someone who actually lives in that hellhole and can judge if its not better to just die instead of fucking up the inheritance by going to the ER.

This is the best anticapitalist propaganda I have ever seen and its not even intentional.

To everyone who thinks this is a worthy system: i wont piss on you if you're on fire.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

I know its late for this but you can also start with Urgent Care. With insurance it could be a fairly cheap copay. They will advise on what to do next. You could have something like the flu (i had the flu and it fucked me all sorts of up) and theyd just prescribe you some medicine and rest

[–] [email protected] 8 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (4 children)

Ironically, if your situation is "Urgent", you do not go to an "Urgent Care". Its a misnomer.

I had chest pains and the Urgent Care I went to just told me to go to an ER. I'm like... 🧐 they didn't have blood tests lmfao. "Urgent" Care is for flu and like ear infections, not for a fucking heart attack or gasterointestinal problems.

Edit: It turned out to be fucking anxiety. Lmfao I hate myself. I was on my parent's insurance so they covered most of it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Regardless im glad you are ok :) i have anxiety too and it can be scary

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