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Which instance is better and why?

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 38 points 2 days ago (2 children)

A soft, fatty foodstuff made by churning the cream of milk

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, that’s butter.

‘Better’ is a pre-release stage of software development.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, that's beta.

'Butter' is hitting something a lot.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, that’s batter

“Beta” is a brand of water filtration systems.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, that's Brita.

Better is the name of a commonly kept freshwater fish that's very territorial against other members of its species.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)

No, thats Betta.

Better is a taste similar to sour.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

No, that's bitter.

Better are the people that gamble a lot.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, that's 'bitter'.

Better is an Italian firearms producer.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

No, that’s 'Beretta'.

Better is a German woman‘s name, which, prefixed by 'Big' is also the nickname given to a large German howitzer in WWI.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

a semiliquid mixture of flour, egg, and milk or water used in cooking, especially for making cakes or for coating food before frying.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 2 days ago

lemm.ee

There’s too many people and communities on world. It’s good to spread out

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

.world is a bit more generic and broad

.ee is more niche but personal

The users of .ee really turned me off the instance.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Make one on both and see which one suits you better.

Afaik lemm.ee is a pretty normal instance with pretty normal people on it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemm.ee is my favorite, but the upload limit is low.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Don't know if that works for gifa?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

Better for what? lemm.ee has had less controversies and is federated with more instances

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

Lemm.ee. Helps decentralizing from LW

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Lemm.ee bcus dœsn't block piracy subs (registered this account before remembering lemmy.world blocks them , but tꝏ lazy to make account some where else and wish could export my (post|comment)s not just account settings)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wait! Which piracy community does world bkoack? And is it possible to check all the communities or instances blocked by world?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you're interested in communities like that, dbzero is a good place to look.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Thank you! I will have a look. Do u also happen to know where I could check instances defederated or blocked by dbz?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I honestly don't know. I do my own blocking of users/communities/instances through the app. For me, dbzero is the best fit.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Ƕy do you type like þat?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Text expander apps (Espanso for PC|Texpand for android)

With substitutions , (oe shortened to œ|oo shortened to ꝏ|.*)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

!! Horny detected !!

Deploying High Power Bonk

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Any third instance that is less generic and more catered to your interests or physical location would be better.

Also keep in mind that lemm.ee does not defederate from a lot of instances - this is bad if you care about a well-moderated space.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

World, because ee does not want you to upload images.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Neither. Never go for an instance thats at the top in terms of user count unless there is a specific reason to do so. This applies to all fediverse or decentralized services.

Go for any of the ones below the red line or sort this table by MAU and find one even further down. Excluding US based servers is also something to think about.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Monthly Active Users :3

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Counterpoint to this is that you may be in a dead instance that doesn't do updates or get maintained properly. You might sign on one day to find that you can't load any posts because the server is down or overloaded.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not an issue with like the top 20

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I'm on my third account in a year or so precisely for the reasons I mentioned.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Lemmy.ca is targeted at Canadians, feddit.org at German speakers (most of [email protected] is in German). Blahaj is a trans-first space, programming.dev for programmers

Lemmy.zip and sopuli are indeed generalists

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

infosec.pub because lemmy.ml is de-feded

😎

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Are they also defederated from the rest of the tankie triad like lemmygrad and hexbear?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yea, its the largest instance that blocks all 3.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Hell to the yes! Think I've found my new instance! Only other instance I know of that's defederated from all 3 is lemmy.cafe but I can't post any images using that instance for whatever reason :o

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

I'm a bit biased, but lemmee has great uptime and the admin is goodat maintaining the instance. There are monthly system and financial stats. For major changes to how things are run, they always post and ask for feedback from users, instead of just coming out with their own ruling.

They also leave it to the users to block instances they don't like. It can be a good or bad thing depending on your preference. If you want something more curated out-of-the-box, .world might be more up your alley. If you want to do it on your own, lemmee gives you more freedom to do so.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Both. Why have one account? This isn't Reddit. Having alts on other servers is fine as long as you don't vote manipulate or use it for ban evasion.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Multiple accounts just gets exhausting

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Don't like having one post on one account and another post on the other account

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Man I enjoy federation just because I don't need multiple accounts

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Almost anything is better than .world

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

It’s just like the ‘What’s the best camera?’ Question.

Unless the instance your account is on has been defederated by a bunch of people and/or .world, the best account is the one you already have.

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