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[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Got married. 0/10 would not recommend.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

Not stuck anymore but I was for like a month. I bought Pretty Litter cause multiple drag queens I liked told me to do so. That is the worst goddamn litter I have EVER used in my life. The smell was horrendous, the dust was so so bad I actually couldn't even be in the next room when my partner did the litter because of my allergies, and our house looked like a fucking beach. Fuck those people. (And shame on me for falling for goddamn ads)

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

An Indigogo electric bike campaign... 10 years ago. It was a scam and I lost a lot of money. Subsequently I have built 5 e-bikes on my own and do not regret it, they are wonderful. But, no crowd-funding for me, ever again. Also, I am anti pre-ordering anything in general.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

I haven't been hyped for anything since Godzilla Minus One came out (which more than lived up to my expectations). I do have to live with my parents buying into the hype of owning a new home. So I'll be stuck inheriting a pile of shit that's going to be falling apart by then instead of their old house that was rock solid.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I never fall for hype, never pre-order. life is good

[–] [email protected] 24 points 23 hours ago

Oh, no! They've fallen for the "don't pre-order" hype!

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Music. Way too many albums are that one decent song you hear on the radio and 38 minutes of filler shite, and you could never take it back to the shop to get a refund for being full of shite. So all my music is pirated first, purchased second, and anyone that objects to this is basically admitting that their industry is based on selling shite that can't be refunded.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

I bought the finger eleven CD. So, can confirm. I also bought Cult Ceremony, thinking it would be anything like Sonic Temple. This just means I don't learn.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

album sales can't be refunded? I bought one physical CD, and one full album for download. Never wanted to refund either purchase, never found out that it's not possible. But really? It's not possible to get a refund from buying a physical album?

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[–] [email protected] 138 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I have a Tesla that, for financial reasons, I can't get out of for another couple few months and while it is one of my favorite cars I've ever driven (and I've driven many), I can no longer enjoy driving it because Musk is a piece of shit that deserves cancer. Looking at Lucid and Rivian now.

I also used to believe America was a great country, but in my late 20s started to realize it's bullshit (I'm in my 40s now). It was kind of a sad realization and it has only gotten worse since then.

I also used to believe more in people and their ability for empathy and, if presented the facts, they'd ultimately make good decisions. I now believe people are generally selfish and narcissistic, and that most don't give a shit about facts and live entirely on off-the-cuff emotion. It doesn't stop me from caring and trying to help (some) of them, but it's definitely made me more wary and paranoid.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

So you'll buy another car, while you mention financial problems, just because the (ex-) CEO of the manufacturer is a piece of shit?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Surely there can be some symbol or obvious modification to let people know when you own a Tesla but disown the talking head at the top.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

I mean, I guess I could put stickers on it and stuff, but I live near Portland and the Tesla vanadalizing is pretty wild here. Not sure it'd do much.

I've actually been taking an old gas truck around lately just so I don't have to be seen in it. But it sucks because the Tesla costs me like $20/month to drive and the truck costs like $30/week.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Felt this. I haven't really ever felt proud of America. It was weird growing up with immigrant parents, proud of their new homeland, just for me to learn of all its atrocities across the world and be like: "y'all moved here for this? They murdered and raped your birth country!" I really want to be more optimistic and hopeful, it's just so hard with everything going on and how overt the racists are these days.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago

I also used to believe America was a great country, but in my late 20s started to realize it's bullshit

Honestly I was 100% bought in when I was like 19. I'm still a big believer in what the Constitution stands for (at least as it means to me), but I fully understand that I got duped by the branding with that one. It has been exceptionally radicalizing and upsetting to see how few of my countrymen believe in the dream of America as I do. May we one day live up to our lofty ideals.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I went here as well, but managed to turn it around. I now have more belief in America being a great country, but as an ideal, as something we need to work hard toward. I’ve become a lot more progressive as I see what it would take to live up to this myth about ourselves. Let’s do it. Let’s do it for our children, for the next generation, for a better world tomorrow! Lets start small and local, be the neighbor you thought you had, show the empathy we all deserve, make America a Community again

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Doing a PhD. One more year and then I’m free again…

[–] [email protected] 8 points 21 hours ago

You'll make it. I, too, fell for it.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Maybe Linux, too lazy to swap back to windows, a lot of random stuff doesnt work or is super annoying to get working, like a material library addon I use for Blender doesn't work for linux apparently (sanctus) and makes it so I cant render with any light in the scene so its not just the menu but the materials themselves. I was hoping at least blender would work, already had to stop pirating houdini and I couldnt get the free version to work either.

All games have been fine, but I dont just game anymore, I like making stuff and playing with 3d tools.

At least embergen seems to work, so I might transition to jangafx over houdini, can buy it monthly and I spend way too much time learning houdini (its fun af) when im likely never making money off this hobby. (cant justify 300$ a year or 2500 perpetual rnow, its an insanely fun simulation toy so it honestly might be worth that, even not making money off it) Its just annoying, I've spent too much time learning it, my brains crammed with Houdini specific information.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

like a material library addon I use for Blender doesn't work for linux apparently (sanctus) and makes it so I cant render with any light in the scene so its not just the menu but the materials themselves.

I don't even know why that wouldn't work. All my blender addons work just fine on Linux

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Wonder if I'm missing a dependency, no idea how to check, seems odd that the material itself wouldn't work on linux

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
  1. Dependency hell is self-inflicted
  2. Dependencies are built into your packaging system (unless you're using containers). There I'll be a way to say "what does this need" and "go get it", but that should have been done during the install of properly-packaged software

I suspect I'm making assumptions about your install, though.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I had a few not install, some say that linux isnt supported in reviews and dont work like alt tab easy fog 2, and sanctus are the ones I remember off the top of my head (sanctus menu didn't work and caused blender to freeze, took me forever to realize it was soemthing I was appending that had a sanctus material causing my crash, didn't realize til I installed the addon on a fresh install and tried applying it to something getting the same issue)

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Get a college degree and the world will be your oyster"

"Put in those extra hours/days/years, do more than the people around you, and it will payoff"

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Spore :(

Everytime I see it in my library, i feel a little sad.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago

The Spore hype was genuinely the reason that killed my thrill of anticipation in video games and movies altogether.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Jesus, I got suckered hard by the 'elio' bullshit. When I was looking around for vehicles, the promise of a really affordable (lol, that should have been a clue) and gas efficient car was amazing. Plus, they already had a working car (lol, should've looked a little closer at those videos to see the duck tape) and were setting up their factory!

Before I gave reddit the finger, I would check in on the sub that was posting the obviously bullshit updates when they came out. There were at least a few of us who wanted to keep joking about that fucking joke.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 day ago (9 children)

I pre-ordered No Man's Sky -_-

Now, they've done WAY more than any of us thought to make things right; but at the time of release, NMS was probably the single most egregious example of false advertising to hit the gaming industry, ever. Or at least within a comparable scope of visibility to the gaming community.

It wasn't just not living up to the hype; it was purchasing a brand new Lamborghini, and receiving 2003 Honda Civic.

And no they didn't just bite off more than they could chew - they knew what they had created; and proceeded to show demos and make promises that amounted to a completely different product. We were scammed.

...and then I guess their conscious got the better of them, cuz rather than disbanding their studio and laughing all the way to the bank like we all expected them to, they spent years at least trying to make look like the product they promised. So, credit where it's due. But still lesson learned: never preorder a game, no matter how good the demos looks, no matter how charming their spokespeople are, no matter how closely the product they're pitching aligns with your specific niche interests: assume it's all complete bullshit until you've seen some gameplay posted by real people.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I didn't fall for the no man's sky hype. The game didn't appeal to me.

But cyberpunk 2077. That one hit hard. After ages of hype, and amazing trailers, I was so for it! I don't get very excited for to many games these days as I'm getting older, but this one ticked all the boxes for me. My disappointment when I realized how buggy and unfinished the game was, alongside everyone who was playing it at launch, exasperated my feelings of being let down and I felt like a sucker. They never really delivered what they originally promised either.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I preordered Spore back in the day. The galactic edition. As a teenager I kept it visible on my dresser as a reminder to never preorder games.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Tasmanian devil ankle tattoo.

Fuck, I know alright? It was 93 and I was barely 16

[–] [email protected] 6 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I'm pretty now that ankle socks are back in style, ankle tattoos of oldie cartoons are 100% allowed and cool again.

Nevermind: I got confused, ankle socks are out of style now.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not that it was particularly hyped but I bought PS4 back in the day and just never really used it. My SO has uses it to watch netflix occasionally but that's pretty much it. The most useless purchase I've ever made.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

It had some great exclusives when they were still exclusive. God of War, Spider-Man, Persona 5, Horizon, etc… Nowadays all of those are on other systems. But originally, you had to play them on PS4. The console had a wonderful library at the time, even if that has been eroded over time by the former exclusives landing on other platforms.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (5 children)

"Spore." That video with Wil Weight showing it off was incredible. Ordered it from Amazon. CD key was no good. EA didn't give two shits. After over a week of dealing with them via support tickets and called, I gave up and just returned it.

Meanwhile, my friend pirated it, played through the whole thing, and said it was just ok.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m flopping what someone else said and goin with: buying a home in 2008. “Build equity! Stop renting”

Then the economy collapsed, I lost my job, moved to California for work after listing my house, could not afford Bay Area rent AND my mortgage, and the house got foreclosed on.

Fuck Chase fuck banks fuck the economy.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

We lost our house. Bank bailouts vs. consumer bailouts even though the financial institutes acted in criminal levels of BS was a big wake up.

It's very, very clear that the 99% are nothing but dog shit on the bottom of the 1% shoes.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

It gets even worse for me.

Since I knew I couldn’t afford it, I tried to setup a short sale when I found someone who was interested. that’d mean chase would lose about 10k on the 120k mortgage.

So I went through the tedious process which took about a month, and just as we were ready to go chase changed my case handler. So I had to start over with the new person, for reasons that were not provided. So fine, I did.

Month later, THAT person switched off and I got a new case processor to take over, and when they told me I had to start over I literally said “you can fuck yourselves, in walking” and I never spoke to chase about the house again. Couple years later the foreclosure finally went through, and instead of 110k they got… 22k from the sheriffs sale.

My step mom worked at chase in the mortgage dept at the time, and later told me this was SOP for short sales at the time. They were uninterested in actually doing it, just jerking me around until I quit trying.

Motherfuckers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, we walked and claimed it on a bankruptcy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Bleh sorry to hear that.

I didn’t declare bankruptcy, but it fucked up my ability to buy a house in 2017 (and again on 2020), so i had to cash out stock and pay cash for the first one, and get an FHA loan on the second (lol).

The black mark fell off after 7 years so I can buy one now, it was just kind of a pain.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I’m really glad I couldn’t afford a Tesla back when the Model 3 came out because I probably would’ve bought one.

Things I actually fell for… mostly video games, but it’s not the end of the world. Mostly it made me much more discerning with new purchases.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 day ago (13 children)

Twitter/Reddit.

I was all in. Quit Twitter around 2015 when it started getting ultra toxic. Quit Reddit when 3rd party apps were killed.

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