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Scientists tell us that being connected and active is one of the secrets to having meaningful and fulfilling life when older. What activities and connections are you planning on pursuing?

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 year ago

When I retired, 5 years ago, I planned to spend more time in online games and maybe find a nonprofit to work with. The online game (Eve) that I'd been playing for years turned tedious after just a few months, and I never found a really interesting NPO. I started walking to local restaurants for lunches, and that simple thing has given me a much greater sense of connection to the community than I got in 20 years of commuting through it. Youtube, Reddit, and now Lemmy, let me feel connected with my interests without having to comment - basically to get a sense of cool stuff that other people are doing, either for inspiration or reassurance. Woodworking, machining, home server/automation, and recently chili pepper farming. I'm reclusive, but I love this life, and I wouldn't go back for anything. And who knows: I might still get inspired by some NPO.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'd like to go back to basic scientific research. Unfortunately modern "scientific system" have pushed most of us out of meaningful research, to do short term, low value work in private sector. I hope to retire early, having enough money to set up my own small lab (in my field of expertise it is possible thanks to cloud providers), doing meaningful (for me) research, and publishing in honest way, for free, out of the main corrupted channels (established publishers).

That's my dream. It's not much, I will probably be ridiculed by many, but at least I will enjoy what I am doing feeling as I am "doing the right thing", not a cog in the scientific mafia system

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Scavenging for food and water in a wasteland after the climate wars. Assuming I'm alive and the planet is still "livable".

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Retirement is a pipe dream for the fortunate. I, along with the majority of my human counterparts, will be forced to work till the day we die.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Work. I can never make the money to retire.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Travelling

I also want to build a kick-ass sun dial

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

As someone who travels a lot, it's exhausting and incredibly expensive. Either it's short enough that you feel obligated to try and stay consistently busy or it's long enough that you begin to miss the familiar. I had dreams of trying to join the Century Club when I was younger - I'm about a 3rd of the way there, and the older I get the more I feel like I hate travelling due to how exhausting it is - dealing with airports is just the absolute worst. I'm worried that I'm going to get to retirement and just be done with it all and just become a hermit.

The sundial thing sounds awesome though.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Finally get some sleep.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I want to read the huge pile of books I never get round to. Plus reread the ones I read thirty years ago. Then I'll go cycling a lot more often than now, for as long as I can still do that. Oh, and maybe try not to be a grumpy old codger. But that's a big maybe.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

The same things I do now probably, assuming I live that long. I'd just have more time for them.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Gardening and macro photography.

If funds are good, travel and landscape photography.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I want to build a hovercraft of my own design, then build a submarine out of an old natural gas or propane tank, and eventually scale that up to building a drone I can ride.

I will not do these things, but it's nice to dream.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I love travelling and do it now, but would love to do longer stays in places when I'm retired. A few months in Bali, a few months in Thailand, just explore and enjoy. I also want to learn how to fly, I'm hoping to take some lessons and get started but it's expensive and time consuming. Maybe when I'm retired I'll have enough saved up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Hanging around in the woods, mostly.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I hope to be able to slow down enough to have time to do some woodworking, painting, writing, model building, and general tinkering. I expect that talking about doing these things and going to groups built around these activities will connect me to other people. If physical stores selling hobby supplies and hardware still exist, I might get to know some regulars there, too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I am relatively young and still have a lot of debts in the form of loans. One of my coworkers was telling me about how since I don't have children (and the expenses that go along with them) and we make a decent wage at my company, I could play my cards right and maybe even retire early.

But I just can't picture myself retiring at all. To be honest, I have absolutely no idea what I would do with my spare time. I'm a fairly socially anxious person with few, if any, connections to others. It's going to work every day that gets me out of bed and socializing. And I get along well with my coworkers. I can't imagine one day no longer doing that. It might honestly make me depressed.

I'll probably just work for as long as possible then cut down to something like part time or a PRN position.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hunting, fishing, and sitting by a fire, with zero concerns. That’s all I want… And maybe with a steam deck 20 in hand.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I want to make cool stuff. A lot of my interests and hobbies right now are digital, everything is done through a computer. I want to spend time making things with my hands so I was thinking of taking up woodworking or making cosplay weapons.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I mean considering I am likely to never retire... work? But hopefully something fun, as well. Perhaps continue my love of travel?