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How would you put into words what gender means to you apart from societal gender roles and expectations? (lemmy.world)

submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I know that it has significant meaning to me but I struggle putting it into words to explain it to other people (especially other dya cis people). So like a few years ago I was thinking about if I may be trans femme. I have since realised that no, actually I was just struggling with it for a while because I don't relate to the gender roles and expectations society puts on men. I now identify more strongly with being a man than ever before, and I love being a man in a gender-way. I just absolutely hate being a man in a "what role men have in society"-way.

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[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Reality is often disappointing. But it is real.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Reality is, these people exist. Despite your protests they are real. Your argument is based on them either not existing or being a mistake.

There is simply no way we can ever align on this issue if we can't fundamentally agree that all people are people. Enjoy the rest of your day. I'm not continuing this.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago

Well if you keep pretending I said things I didn't say, you can get offended at whatever you want. Please leave me out of it though. I didn't ask to be party to the made up argument in your head.