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Am i the a**hole for telling my coworkers no? (xalla.day)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Let me start by saying I'm a "floor guy" at a small town hardware store. I am in training to be a manager but not one yet. I do a bunch of stuff around the store. Which leaves me busy a lot of the time.

We have a paint department that LOVES calling me and the other floor guys to do dumb things that is their job. Now, I don't mind helping here or there. However when I get called away from doing something to come pick up your empty boxes to bring them to the box crusher when you're supposed to, or to bring a box up to the register for a customer that weighs 10lbs.

I just get furious since they've been told not to do this. However they don't stop. I recently told them I'm not moving a box for them since they weren't busy. They were just playing on their phone while waiting on me.

They complained and the manager told them it's their job. Now I have multiple people mad at me because I tell them NO. When it's not my job unless they are too busy.

Am I the asshole?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Everyone is my dept respects me. They do what I say when I say it. They know I'm in charge and I'm not that bad of a manager. I actually have experience from 2 other stores. It's the girls in other dept that is so used to the other floor guys, current and old, saying YES YES YES!!! However I don't say yes which makes them mad.

In my store we have "floor guys" that do everything. We are supposed to know the store and help when and where we can. Which is why we get paid more. However just because we CAN doesn't mean we SHOULD. Even the store managers are tired of it which is why we had a meeting where they got told it's not our job. Pissed them off.

I'm not gonna be a store manager. Just someone who manages the guys and what they do. Basically make sure they aren't fucking off 90% of the day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I just realized "floor guy" doesn't mean "flooring department guy" and now this all makes more sense.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sounds like what I call Pretty Girl Syndrome. Pretty girls are never told no and are appalled when anyone does so. I can hardly hold it against them, it's just the way life has been for them, but still.