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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You're not stupid, anybody can fall victim to a manipulation. Everyone has some sort of weak spot that can be exploited. It's not helpful to play the blame game but if you're gonna blame anyone it would be the narcissist that you described. The other thing to remember is that we cannot change the past, therefore no point worrying about it. The important thing is happening right now. Good luck sweetie.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Thank you. I feel like i did the right choice when i left and now i am taking a new chapter in my life. Cheers to new beginnings 🥳