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My daughter is 14, but I'm sure answers for kids younger or older can apply.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 6 days ago (4 children)

if you're planning to leave because trump got elected, then be warned. the UK has similar problems

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 days ago

Similar risks I would say. The UK by and large chose "the sensible option" in the last general election. The equivalent of Harris/dems, or the "anti chaos" option.

Reelecting Trump vs reelecting the Tories is a fair comparison, especially as the Tories are moving further and further right wing.

In summary the labour party have about 3 years to make some noticeable impact to people's lives in the UK, but all that against the backdrop of huge financial issues incurred during the past decade or so, increasing war and conflict and now the Trump presidency.

There very well maybe people who will follow the conservative party on their way further right. The UK already had it's brexit moment and has not really learned from it fully.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The UK government is getting rid of conversion therapy. Labour wants to, the king wants to, the C of E wants to, and because of the last part, enough Tories want to that it will happen.

So it doesn't have similar problems when you have a queer child.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (5 children)

LGB is one thing, Q and T are another. There's a reason it's so often referred to as "TERF Island".

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Piss off, the UK is one of the safest places to be gay and to grow up gay in the world.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

Absolutely - it's a great place to be gay or lesbian, and presumably bi as well. Trans or gender nonconforming is another matter.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

As unfortunate as that is, it is not in issue with my child. I know what I'm doing to keep her safe. I just don't know enough about adjusting her to school.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

TERFs are absolutely a tiny but vocal minority. Most people couldn't give a toss.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That moment when I question what Q stands for. Lesbian Gay Bi ? Trans I thought the Q was queer, which always seemed redundant, so I just took it to mean pans. Like LGBPT.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Yep, Q is Queer (also sometimes Questioning). It's kind of a fuzzy category to define from the outside, but covers people who don't consider themselves to fall within any of the other categories.

Non binary and other gender nonconforming folks will often identify as queer. So may people who challenge cis- or hetero-normativity, monamory, and other social norms around gender and sexuality (look into "Queer Theory").

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Care to elaborate on those reasons? And I don't want to hear about JK Rowling. Every country has loud twats on twitter.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Look up trans healthcare rights in the UK. Transphobia is actively being promoted by our government based on shitty unfounded but politically backed science like the Cass report.

And while the UK is probably one of the safest places in the world to be gay, there is still homophobia. If you're visibly queer and ever have to rely on healthcare services, you will most likely experience it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

I'm familiar, a good friend of mine is going through it at the moment. I'm not saying it's perfect, I'm saying we don't deserve the name "terf island" when we're ranked 15th in the world for trans rights.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Since you say you're already familiar with the Cass report and issues like multi year wait times for initial appointments for transition care, I'll jump to other examples.

Media - From the BBC, to the Guardian, to Channel 4, transphobia is given a megaphone.

Rising levels of hate crimes

Guidance to schools includes outing transgender children to their parents

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

I'm just trying to be a little bit more optimistic about things, I feel like we've had some real progression in the last decade. My workplace has tampons in the men's toilets which would have seemed inconceivable ten years ago. Everyone I know has been accepting of my friends that transitioned, even ones that vote Tory. I guess people on the internet just really want to be pessimistic and cry about how bad everything is. I'll stop arguing here, feel free to continue the doom and gloom.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Quatsch, Merz ist super sympathisch und seine Brandmauer ist unüberwindbar! 😐

We're in danger

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I feel like Ireland is still mostly reasonable despite some recent nonsense. Elections just got called yesterday so I may eat my words in three weeks but I don't think so. The extremists were roundly rejected in the recent European elections which was comforting.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Welp. That’s good enough for me! I’m coming over! 😉

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

UK Trump is slightly younger