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I personally don't think it matters much at all, except in channels that specifically identify that way. However, I am male, hetero, cis, so its possible I'm just clueless.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Doesn't matter at all. A person is a person.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (3 children)

and some of us are barely people

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Everyone is a complete person. Don't belittle yourself like that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm a barley person. I love beer.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I'm the old Norm. I want normal beer.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel like a ‘raccoon’ that self-identifies as a ‘ramblingpanda’ on lemmy should be given…a warm welcome!

The trash is in the kitchen, the bamboo is out back, the bourbon is in the den, and the game starts in 5.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

That's a party of my taste 💖

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I swear there’s at least one wasp who posts pro-wasp propaganda

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Wait

White Anglo-Saxon Protestants are people!?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I do think we all try to keep that spirit around here.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

No spirits! Only people.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I know you're probably a kind person, but imo, this kind of reductionistism is incompatible with being pro-trans-rights.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In what way am I reducing them?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

Not the person you're replying to but it kinda feels like the "oh I don't see color" comment when somebody brings up racism. To me, it feels... dismissive? I dunno. I don't think what you said is a problem or anything, it just... feels like it has bad connotations to me. Take this with a grain of salt, what I understand and interpret can be very different from what you say, which can also differ from what you mean.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Is it? Then what is the gender of the person you're replying? Surely if it was important you would need to know it before replying. The fact that you can reply someone without knowing their gender is proof that it doesn't matter here.

If gender didn't mattered IRL, trans people would be seen in the same light of someone who likes wearing black, or is unhappy with the way their nose looks to the point of doing a surgery about it. Trans people suffer because society puts a lot of importance in gender, therefore wanting to dress clothes from a different gender, or having a body that looks a different gender are "radical" ideas that offend simple-minded people.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

A person's a person no matter how small