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One that comes to mind for me: "Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is not always true. Maybe even only half the time! Are there any phrases you tend to hear and shake your head at?

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[–] [email protected] 154 points 2 months ago (22 children)

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."

No. What doesn't kill you creates trauma.

[–] [email protected] 59 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah what didn't kill me gave me a chronic disease. I'm weak as hell compared to 3 years ago.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 months ago (2 children)

For me it turned me into a depressed person who no longer feels emotion the way I did before. I'm 99% numb. The other 1% is manic attacks.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Shout out to my ex who started on #2 recently, as people keep telling me.

Maybe they got therapy and will be a better person this time. Maybe #2 will be the person they need. Whatever. Peace.✌🏽

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Same. But in a way, it did kill me, so maybe that's why I'm not getting stronger.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I can relate. My experience completely changed my personality.

I definitely look at the pre-depression version of myself and see a completely different person.

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