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I didn't say the kid suffered?

It's a shitty spot for bio-dad to be in. Kid may see it for what it is and may not. If I were the dad I simply wouldn't put myself in that sitatution. They can go enjoy their vacation and I'd spend the time with my son after.

Why did you assume I was talking about the dad?

You know a whole lot of parents don't love their kids and don't want to spend time with them, right?

I'd absolutely assume mom & new dad would have several romantic dinners and activites alone while bio-dad entertained his kid.

edit; oh I see someone grew up in a loving household and assumes they're all like that

I haven't run into that particular issue (I wish I could replace some old ones) but we stream back to a Linux box and then out to cloud storage for archival purposes so maybe we aren't hitting the onboard stuff as hard.

edit: the primary reason we deal with axis is because they're extremely configurable/fixable remotely

Axis makes good (the best) IP cams, I use them commercially, they're pretty much the gold standard. Super fucking expensive though so probably not worth it for home use but you might be able to pick up something 2nd hand.

Why wouldn't they try? They've done everything they could so far and face no repercussions, why not go ahead and try to be king? A few people will fret and tut-tut but if nobody is going to do anything it doesn't amount to much.

Ad hominem much?

I have a lot better things to do than sit around and be called a wife-beating rapist.

Go fuck yourself.