I know and that's the Vicious Cycle of it. Even as soon as you get yourself to that confidence that you know you have value on the job market and you can stand up for yourself with toxic shitty employers, leaving that job or getting fired or laid off means you have to go through the whole job interviewing process again. And that shit is degrading in itself and it starts to eat away at that confidence that you gained
You definitely get it. You know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. This behavior is prevalent, and I feel like ppl cower and don't stand up for themselves bc of losing their job.
In my opinion, it doesn't matter. You need to show them that you mean business and don't care who they are that you're not gunna take their bullshit.
You're not a fucking slave, and people who work for you need to be treated with respect.
The moment you show them its 'ok' to walk all over you. It's done. You let them know you'll tolerate being treated like shit and they are just going to push you around.
You've proven you're not valuable at that point your disposable.
I'm certain when they were interviewing you and you told them about your military experience, their assholes receded into their bowels.
At that moment they knew that if they hire you, they have to leave you alone and let you do your job. Because idk? You're a fucking adult?
'Take no shit ' as in being taken advantage of in your position. Increased work loads with the expectation to be complete within the day when it's clearly a 3 person project.
You are micromanaged, belittled and humiliated in front of your co workers and customers on a daily basis and spoken down to as if you suffer from a cognitive syndrome.
= treated like shit
I don't see how not taking that behavior and standing up for yourself is being an asshole. You don't let people walk all over you like that.
I know and that's the Vicious Cycle of it. Even as soon as you get yourself to that confidence that you know you have value on the job market and you can stand up for yourself with toxic shitty employers, leaving that job or getting fired or laid off means you have to go through the whole job interviewing process again. And that shit is degrading in itself and it starts to eat away at that confidence that you gained