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Thousands isn't a small amount, especially if the exaggerating rate is good.

Yes, it's ethical to eat fish. I'm against the industrial practices, but that doesnt have anything to do with people eating them.

You can disagree on politics and still be rational and kind about it. This place isn't that.

Hey, wecome, sorry for all the downvotes. Don't let it chase you away, there are dozens of us here -dozens!- who are more rational and realistic. I, too, was hoping for a more relaxed, less extreme political chatter, but alas, it's not here.

So, if you find any of that outside this space, please let me know, I'll gladly join.

I genuinely enjoy human contact. It's why I like working in-office rather than remote. Because I naturally enjoy being around others, I want them to be happy too.

My compliments are genuine. If you look close enough, there's usually something you can find about a person that you can give a genuine compliment to. That fosters good will between people. The better they feel around me, the better I feel.

Compliments don't get annoying. I love getting them, especially when I know they're genuine. It's why I always make sure my own compliments are genuine.

The only time it gets uncomfortable is when compliments go over the top.

I drive 30 minutes into work, but it's against traffic both ways, so it's a smooth ride.

Same, but I'm also not concerned about FOSS, I just want a reliable app and sync is it.

The term "involuntary" means that they're not chosing to be single or sexless, but that forces outside of their control is causing it. But something has to cause it, and it's the attitude that women have that they usually blame. The problem is that their own issues are what cause the celibacy, of which they refuse to change. It's a lot easier for most people to but the blame outside of their control.

Honestly, it sounds like an anxiety disorder. No one is looking at men walking around without a partner wondering why a partner isn't with them,. No one expects people to be with their partners all the time.

Exactly. Incel is not another word for vergin, there are tons of vergins who aren't incels.

I can't speak to your creepiness, but as long as you put the onus on yourself as to why you're single and don't blame others, I wouldn't call you an incel. Do you call yourself an incel?

The problem is, the word "involuntary" in incel puts the blame on those who won't fuck them. It's not their fault they haven't had sex yet, it's those who keep denying them. This gives them a reason not to have to change their behaviors or thoughts, which keeps them undesirable. That's why they're frowned upon.