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Sometimes it's also, is it really important to know? A lot of things I have complicated opinions of because things are nuanced and complicated in the real world, so for example even if you ask me it's not like I can just be for or against Israel or whatever. And I certainly don't feel like going over it again and again and again as people keep asking about random topics.

I swear americans have this weird thing where everyone needs to have a strong opinion on every topic all the time, and talk about it all the time so they can sus out if you're leaning democrat or republican. It's so weird. I'm not even american, I can't do anything about it! I'll keep my opinions where they belong, in my head, thank you.

It's important to be educated about those topics but I don't feel the need to make it my entire personnality, unlike some people. I have better things to do that actually brings me joy rather than doom and gloom over things I can't do anything about.

This. They even provide the cover image to use. If they don't want embedding they could just block the request.

But they don't want to. They want to sell the cake and eat it too.

Anyone that's used a custom ROM knows just how shitty your 48MP camera looks like without the processing lol. People go out of their way to make GCam work because it's so bad.

It's one of those bougie "nostalgia" app isn't it? Like those shitty scamcorders that VWestlife covered not long ago.

BlueSky is its own thing with its own federated protocol called ATproto. They have an explanation in their docs on how it works, different features. There's a bridge between the two as well, a bit janky but effective.

You just put both in the server_name line and you're good to go.

A lot of them got sucked into the whole "the government is forcing it on you to control the population", and they simply can't comprehend that anyone would voluntarily wear what they now consider being the symbol of submission to the government. In their mind it doesn't work and never worked and you're just virtue signalling your support of the government. It's wild and a lost cause.

I'd expect it to get much worse now.

One thing to be careful with allowing some bending of the rules, is some are going to start testing how far they can bend the rules. Everytime you bend a rule you create a precedent for it as well, and you get into nasty fights of why was I banned but not them and have your clemency hit you right back in the face.

If it's okay to bend some rules, then that should explicitly be the rule instead. Offtopic discussions for example, you can have a rule be "all top level comments should be on topic" as a balance, so offtopic discussions can happen, just not take over the whole comment section. If you allow something, make a mod comment explaining why for transparency and set the right expectations: "This post is off-topic but is generating on-topic discussion so we're keeping it."

Similarly, well designed punishments goes a long way. For example, automatic ban after N warnings can be unfair. What you're really after is, you don't want to be warning that user every day to stay on topic. So the punishment can be more like "more than 3 warnings within 10 days results in a 7 day ban". But sometimes the situation is such, you can rack in 10 warnings in the same threads. So you can make the punishment account for that: "If you get warned more than 3 times during a 14 day period, you will be banned for 7 days". Or per thread, whatever makes sense. Understand common mistakes community members do and how you can steer them in the right direction without being unnecessarily harsh.

With those two combined, it shouldn't matter if you moderate like a robot or not. The expectations are clear, forgiving and fair while enforcing some order for repeat offenders. The rules have the flexibility you need baked in so you don't have to bend the rules.

I went for a federated option specifically so that it's resistant to one company going rogue like Reddit did with the API fiasco and the banning of every third party app that made Reddit great. That's really the killer feature, if you're tired of your admins you go to another instance. No need to protest and switch your subs to private, just move the whole community elsewhere.

The logins aren't federated, the content is. Each instance receives a copy of everything, and normally you browse other instance's content from your home instance. In your case you'd access lemmy.one's content from your home instance, lemmy.world. If the logins were federated we wouldn't need those domains after our usernames!

The email analogy still works for this: if you're on Gmail, you don't go log in to Outlook to send an email to your friend: from gmail directly, you send an email to your friend and Gmail's server takes care of sending it out to Outlook.

There's browser extensions to help go back to your home instance, as the linking on Lemmy is sometimes a bit weird and you do end up on other instances every now and then.

Which usually you can just paste the URL in your home instance's search to get it

Everyone's approaching this from the privacy aspect, but the real reason isn't that the cashier thought you were weird, they're just underpaid and under a lot of pressure from management to try multiple times and in some cases they even get written up for not doing it because it's deemed part of their job. They hate it just as much as you. Same when you try to cancel your cable subscription or whatever: the calls are recorded and their performance is monitored and they make damn sure they try at least 3 times to upsell you, even when it's painfully obvious you're done with them.

Just politely decline until they asked however many times they're required to ask and move on.

There's way too many software engineers and a constant shortage of doctors, at least in Canada.