This is devastating. The LGBT community are often hiding their true selves because of family, colleagues, culture etc. People will be destroyed.
CheeseToastie
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That would have caught me out too
Haha I nearly forgot too.
I hear you. Counselling can really help, it helps you take control of your own life and reduce the amount of problems you have.
I don't even do that so i admire your conscientiousness. If it's not a smart device or the thermostat it stays at the wrong time
Workplace ones are awful, there's loads of research showing bullies often go into management. Best way I've found to manage it is not to tell anyone I work with anything about me so they have nothing to use against me.
Have you got much support in your life? If you're missing a dad's support you can find it at [email protected] it's great and supportive dad posters.
Oh god that's impactive
I really feel for you mate. Vulnerable people get targeted constantly and it's horrible... they can get in a cycle of never being able to not be vulnerable because they never get a chance to fully recover. The funny thing is that vulnerable people see people's true self around them.
The main thing is working on self esteem, having good boundaries comes when people have the self esteem to do them. Have you worked on the causes of your self esteem issues? Counselling can really help
100% agree with this. Our gut instinct is trying to tell us things and we often ignore it. I ALWAYS trust mine.
I'm replying to you solely so you can upvote one comment and downvote the other. You're welcome.
Thanks. What is an LLM?