2piradians

I struggle with this too. I think it's because it feels so damned nonproductive to not try and figure out how to make things better. Matter of fact, it feels like how I approach people dumping personal problems at work...indifference I suppose. And that's the last thing I want to show someone I care about. So it weighs me down.

I've taken to asking questions from different angles during the venting, and this seems to be my best strategy. Results are mixed.

I've accepted that I can't be one of these "there, there" people because I don't enjoy feeling useless. I care, what's being said matters to me, but I can't be myself in the situation. And that feels bad.

I'm with you there. SFTD hit a great balance between dark and light. I think Josh needs Nick Oliveri's approach, though I know he had his problems (maybe still?). Musically though, I think they're a case of a whole being greater than the sum of its parts.

You'd think corporations would learn from these types of failures. But no, not as long as endless growth is the overall plan. The yes men will keep cutting corners at the expense of safety and quality.

CUT MY LIFE INTO PIZZAS

Playing it safe will definitely work, but also there's nothing wrong with using your sink disposal properly. Nothing hard or firm like bones or plastic, no coffee grounds, and don't drain fat in the sink.

It could tell them there's likely a live person receiving their bullshit, so continue spamming with other means.

Bear in mind these are all just ideas I have about how they operate, based on nothing really. I try to imagine how spammers analyze data they receive to target us.

Edit: In italics

I always block them right away. My idea is that any interaction flags you as 'positive direct contact' in their scumbag networks, making them likely to increase the spamming. I realize the act of blocking may in itself trigger this, if they track undeliverable contact, but idk what else to do.