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Divide and conquer.

So many people here are ready to fight at the slightest dissent. So ready to censor and ban.

It's unnatural.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

You're seeing the result of a Reddit migration, bringing the Reddit culture and mindset with it.

When you hear graybeards taking about Eternal September, this is the sort of thing to which they're referring. Now, you have your own "I remember the good old days, before the assholes took over Lemmy."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

Divide what?

Lemmy isn't a monolithic thing, how would that be divided?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Maybe it's not BECAUSE you disagree, but HOW you disagree.

I've seen you post some wacky metaphysical concepts and get upset when others don't agree with your unusual beliefs and assumptions.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Do you have a citation for that? Because I think my replies have been pretty chill.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

That depends. Are you just going to argue and defend whatever I find, or are you going to read them and consider that maybe they aren't as chill as you think?

I'm willing to help you learn and understand, but I'm not interested in wasting my time on an argument.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I promise to read and consider!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

So, this is a rather unflattering conversation. I'm going to translate each post HOW I INTERPRET IT. I have no doubt that whatever you originally intended will not match what I describe. That's the point. I don't think you're a bad person, I think you're not communicating effectively and sometimes it makes you sound like an asshole.

Title: Cause and Effect isn't real! (Take note that there is no supporting text to explain the ambiguous title.)

Them: I don't understand what you mean. Can you give an example?

You: Title rephrased in an even MORE ambiguous way. It's pointless to explain because you're all morons in an echo chamber.

Them: We just wanted clarification.

You: I know YOU are, but what am I ?

Them: Wait, what? You started this conversation, you should tell us what led you to believe this.

You: ugh you're so difficult! Do you want proof or clarification?

Them: Nevermind, I found your other comment where you explained yourself better.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Well you certainly put a lot of work into that. For that reason I will consider it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I honestly have no idea if you're completely dismissing me or not.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This isn't a theses defense, so stop with the sophistry.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

Exactly this. I never said such a thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

Lemmy is split by design.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

What do you mean ?

Most lemmy communities are pretty relax and laid-off, not really aplace with troll and censorships

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago

Who is "they"?

Users clawing at each other over anything, and mods power tripping has been an Internet trope since the BBS forum days in the 1990s, at least. Lemmy, or at least LW seems to have a lower than median amount although imperfect. Lemmy as a platform has the advantage that anyone willing to undertake it can spin up their own instance, preventing a 100% stranglehold on mod/admin powers.