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For example, I'm a white Jewish guy but I've adopted the Japanese practice of keeping dedicated house slippers at the front door.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I wear a mask unless I need my mouth for something.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I love wearing a mask it makes me feel like a ninja

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Same here. I'm immune compromised and masks are a blessing.

I used to get sick once a month and now I've not been sick since before covid.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've learned from the Japanese phrase 'itadakimasu,' which is said before eating as a way to thank the person that prepared the food. I think in the west, a lot of us grew up learning to say things like grace before a meal, but that is too religious for me and gives God credit for peoples' hard work instead. I love the idea of ritualistically thanking the people who actually made the food. It was one of the things I appreciated while studying there that has stuck with me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

In my culture its common courtesy to thank a person after the meal, either the one who made it, brought it, or paid for it. But only if they're present. It ain't a ritual. Same-ish thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I set all my digital clocks to 24hr mode, something I picked up after living in Europe. Would never go back.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Likewise. I just found it much easier when trying to schedule my day. Not having to account for the switch from 12-1 makes the math simpler.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

One of us! Now shift to metric!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm a big white guy but I wear sarongs all the time, having grown up on Java and wore them as a kid. Soooo comfortable and versatile.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I would LOVE the house slipper bit. I've suggested it so many times. Wife and kids just won't go for it. Wife says it's rude to ask a guest to take off their shoes. I disagree but she just can't see my point or view. If you want to enter my house, show respect and take off your shoes to keep my house clean.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I just don't get it lol. Whenever I enter someone's house for the first time I ask "would you like me to take my shoes off?".

It's not that hard, and especially obvious if they have light colored carpet

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I have multiple guests slippers at the door with internal shoe cleaner also to hand, but that's mostly for show as we clean them anyway. Regular guests eventually get to choose there slippers and we'll get what ever they want.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Stretching. I think this originally came from southeast Asia, its so far back that its hard to discover. But I stretch every single morning. As a Native American I need that to limber up so I can dance, which I enjoy doing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Before I quit drinking I believe I was following Russian culture with my vodka intake.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Drinking cheapest vodka possible chasing it with cheapest bear possible, then fight, sing, fight again, vomit all over the place, and fall asleep face down in a bowl of salad?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

American, here. Got a bidet, and I am never going back. The fact that this isn't standard in American households is disgusting.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

From the USA: wearing a white t-shirt under my shirt or t-shirt. Helps preventing sweat stains under armpits. Really hot in the summer though

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Try and get 100% cotton. It's the polyester that makes it hot.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

In the SW USA in summer it can get 117F (47C) and let me tell you, my dude, 100% cotton is still hot as hell.

I don't know this for sure, but to me it seems like the whole suit and tie and jacket thing was a northern European tradition and eventually an eastern USA tradition where it's cold. That shit don't work in the desert, and those who continue to claim "professionalism" and maintain such stupid customs are fools, in my opinion.

I'm not middle eastern but those dudes have the correct answer to the desert. I really wish the thawb would catch on in the Sonoran Desert of the southwest USA.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am not Jewish, but I have adopted the practice of placing stones/pebbles on my parents' gravestone each time I visit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Is that cleaned up or are there a pile there after a while?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Wow I just posted a comment that was for another thread by accident! My apologies.

I've adopted something called Kaizen and the 5S for manufacturing which is pretty much a philosophy of making things more convenient to reduce waste, time and energy doing something and making sure items are placed in the most efficient place possible.

I used to be pretty organized and it has been great following something like this.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'm British and I say y'all fairly often. It just rolls off the tongue.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I’m a redneck American who says y’all, and calls people cunts a lot. We have so much to share

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Happy to have more of the y'all in English English, but personally I'd like an uptake in youse.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A few jump to mind.

I say No Worries quite a lot.

I use chopsticks as much as a fork at home.

I take my shoes off inside.

I'll order a Pint.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

What culture says "no worries"? I've heard it so much I thought it universal by now.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I was what I think we would now call a "weeb" in my junior/senior year of high school, and had studied Japanese culture before making a short trip over there in the summer. One of the things I learned was that blowing your nose in public is seen as bad manners, and it really stuck with me. When you think about it, it is pretty gross to loudly blow snot into a tissue (bonus points for carrying a handkerchief!) in front of others, like (as an American) we'll just do this at the dinner table without batting an eye.

To this day, I try not to blow my nose in public places or in front of folks if I can avoid it, because it has grossed me out ever since learning how Japanese culture perceives it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Wtf? That is super gross. I'm Canadian and I don't know anyone who would do it at the dinner table. I've seen my boss do it at his desk but he turns to face the corner next to his desk first.

Ime most people go to the washroom to do it, or at least make sure they're not near anyone else.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm American and I don't think anyone in my social circle would blow their nose at the dinner table. Yours might just be gross.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It seems to me to be worse manners to just leave your snot as leaking out or making you sniffle. Better to get it over with rather than make people listen to that for minutes to hours.