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'Better than a real man': young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends (techxplore.com)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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'Better than a real man': young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends::Twenty-five-year-old Chinese office worker Tufei says her boyfriend has everything she could ask for in a romantic partner: he's kind, empathetic, and sometimes they talk for hours.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 10 months ago (4 children)

If men did this they would be labeled pathetic...

[–] [email protected] 58 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

You're 100% correct lol. Men who do this are roundly mocked and called sad creepy incels.

That said, the culture and dating scene for women in China is pretty awful. My ex was Chinese and had some awful dating stories, now she avoids dating Chinese men. Easy for her to do as she left china, but not everybody can/wants to.

We need to learn to be a little less mean to anybody who uses these apps. They're likely doing it because they see little alternative, yet still want affection. Calling them losers, be they male or female, achieves nothing other than hurting them.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago

Only thing it does is makes mean people feel better about themselves by punching down.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Men do this and a company straight up profited from it until they tried to go back to be sponsor friendly and gimped their AI personas service

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Ashley Madison?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

I'm guessing Replika.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Aren't we already with this? I never see anyone going "You go queen!" over someone's virtual bf

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

This is relatively novel, give it time…

I did see that response to “sologamy” articles - women marrying themselves.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

We do and it is.