Ask Lemmy

• authenticity -> real and genuine

• autonomy -> seperate individual (not enmeshed)

• curiosity -> growth mindset and learning constantly

• growth -> improving functioning and increased awareness of change and adapting to new circumstances

• peace -> absence of conflict and abnegation of other people's drama/entitlements

• pleasure -> enjoying or benefitting from the actions I take and consequences of those I maintain relationships with

• respect -> genuine care for recognizing and upholding other's needs where it is safe and not incompatible with your own

• reciprocity -> balanced approach to give/take and being mutually-attentive to signs of imbalance

• safety -> avoiding things, people, places, situations that hurt you or cause you to be unable to enforce the protections you need to accomodate yourself in the context

• stabillity -> expectation of consistency and balance and sustainabillity in one's relationship with anything/anyone.

These are sort of a rough outline of mine, how about yours Lemmings? Mine aren't exhaustive but these are the core simplest profile I could break down. Feel free to steal anything and add to your collection ;)