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I wonder why this individual was bullied
Being autistic can get someone bullied, and the person on the receiving end may not even know what they did wrong because of their autism.
Fuckin yyyyup
This was my whole life and I love seeing people online say the person being bullied deserves it.
Really shits all over my experience and the years I spent trying to figure out what the fuck was wrong with me to make everyone seem to hate me just for existing.
I hope you're taking steps in the right direction (I mean acknowledge it's all shit is half it right?). Its taken me a journey over the last 2 years to try and understand it all, and I'm in a better place because of it.
Still don't understand it all of course, but it feels better knowing I'm not the only insane one.
I know when I am being argumentative exactly what it is that I am doing socially wrong, but other than that I’ve always found it hard to tell how people pick up on me not being one of them, lol. It can be an isolating experience.
Have you met a bully?
Usually bully has a reason that they bully, but their targets are just whoever looks like an easy target. If it turns out that they are, they keep them.
We do not know if the person was bullied or just had an extreme sense of entitlement or some other type of personality disorder which made them believe everyone who didn't treat them a specific way was bullying them.