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What's a useful mental model you've put into practice (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Inversion Thinking

Instead of thinking about positive outcomes (assuming everything will turn out right), turn the process on its head by thinking what could go wrong and cause you to fail so you know what and who to avoid to maximize your chance of success or at least not being surprised so you're able to make contingency plans ahead of time to compensate

You need to also do the more conventional process of thinking so you actually have an affirmative plan but it helps to know where all the mines are buried (like Minesweeper)

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago (3 children)

TIL neurotypicals literally just go about their day and work life just assuming everything will go right

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

Yeah, it's so alien to me. I'm envious, though, must feel nice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

We really don't

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

That is not what I have observed. I do kinda wonder sometimes however

Me: right so we said we would be there by 630. If we leave within the next five minutes we should be there at 6:25

Wife: it's fine

Me: just you know we could leave now and no one has to have any anxiety about being late.

Wife: they aren't going to care

Me: true they won't really care that much but we did say 6:30. Wouldn't it be nice to not be worried? Like what if we make a wrong turn and have to double back? We would still be on time if we left now.