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In which situations a friendship can swallow us and destroy our life ?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think any can be really.

A friend gives us validation, which could push us to do things we don't want in some situations.

We can also be betrayed by a friend, and our outlook on life/perspectives shift into darker territory, particularly if you are isolated and stuff...

Someone you consider to be a friend may also not have your best interests at heart, or may have a completely wrong impression of you, and may not protect you from danger when you need it most.

Despite those, IMO friends are kind of essential from a mental health perspective - we're social beings, isolation can bring out the worst in us. Whenever you come across someone that shares your values, keep them close ๐Ÿ‘

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago