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do you find it difficult to get into games? I’ve got Epic Games and Steam Games libraries chock-full of classic top-tier games along with many other newer games like Stray or 2077, and a bunch of indie titles. I just can’t be bothered to download and install them, much less try to get into the characters and storylines. Used to be I couldn’t wait to see what happened in the story, what new items you could collect, what new worlds the developers had created. Not anymore. I return to playing the same franchise for a quick FPS match or three and then I’m done.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

People are always so quick to jump on the "it's depression" train, but it can also be totally normal for one's tastes and interests to change over time.

I used to absolutely love games as a kid and teen. But as an adult, I just have a hard time getting into them anymore. I often seem to have fun watching people play games instead of experiencing them myself, and that's ok too.

It's like...after a day at work, I just want to unwind. Gaming requires a degree of effort and can even be stress inducing. So I'm just not super into it anymore. I try to get into games now and then but usually I can't be bothered.

I mean, you're right that for some people, it can signal depression. For others, it just signals growing older. Such is life.