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As fucked up as his ex wife's request may be, if you're indifferent that's reason enough not to.
I don't want kids. I can't even take good enough care of myself and basic household upkeep. Adding the stress and cost and limitations that come with having a kid are just non-starters. That and I just don't feel any need or want in the first place.
That said, if I could actually have a real biological child with my same-sex husband and the question wasn't purely hypothetical, I'd have to think about it some more.
Or maybe if the universe threw a homeless queer teen at us who had nowhere else to go, maybe I'd consider adopting, maybe. But adopting an actual child or infant is a real tough sell, even if I would ideologically prefer that to having an actual biologically hacked together two-dads kid