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But why? Would it be noncey to talk about whether we got circumcised as children and how we feel about it now?
Most people who get circumcised are fine with it and think it's weird or gross to not be. I'm not cut and I hate the idea of it ever being done to me though. Odd how reality defies expectation there. I wonder if that is true of other men too. Hmm, maybe there are other topics this could also be true in, do you possibly think?
This question is about the habits of people's parents, and how it affected them growing up. This is not a question about fucking kids, and interpreting it as such is so out there it borders on the deliberate, which seems pretty fucking noncey to me. Why are you interpreting this as asking for permission to fuck kids?
We are not talking about fucking in front of children, we are talking about the lived experience of people who that has happened to and how it affected them. That means you are the one drawing false equivalence (you are equating fucking in front of kids with talking about the impact it had on the person). These are life experiences and can be talked about without the need for any thought-policing by you.
Is that so...
This you?
Really, that's where you mind went from reading OPs question? I think that says more about you than OP.
This wasn't really a thread about child abuse until you showed up.
Right, exept OP said "around", like in the same house for example. It was you that changed it to "in front". Those are very different implications.
Dunno, you just came across as a little bit noncey.