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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Years ago I read something online about "target fixation" which can occur when walking past someone. It's basically that thing when you lock eyes with someone walking towards you and neither of you can decide which way to go?

Anyway the thing I read said just look past the person, like just focus behind them and you can usually avoid this weird awkwardness. I've found it totally works!

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

There are tons of cues that work as long as they are about what the person wants to do and not about how they are feeling or what led up to the cue.