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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (3 children)

When I was a child, I once knocked every book off every shelf in the house.

Because I had 6 books in alphabetical order on my little shelf in my room. My mother kept rearranging them in as close a rainbow distribution as possible.. I asked her to stop many times, but ultimately decided if you're going to mess up my shelf, I will mess up yours.

Surprisingly this tactic worked, and they didn't make me clean up the books by myself, they did most of it.

Their idea of "organizing" the books is "well most of the books in that series are close to each other, but a bunch of other random ones are mixed in, and entire genres have been rearranged many times so who knows what books we even actually have"

They have a similar way of organizing dvds. It's infuriating.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But do they actually read and watch the books and dvds? Cause my mom doesn't read, so books are just decorations to her

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

They barely watch dvds anymore since they're spending like 100/mo on various streaming subs.

They've had a book in hand for as long as I can remember, nowadays it's a Kindle but their disorganization has been present as long as I can remember, too.

Last year I watched their dog while they were out of town, and I reorganized their dvd collection in alphabetical order, keeping the various series together.

In less than 6 months it was essentially back to complete chaos. And in that time,according to them, they barely watched any dvds, they just looked through the shelves a bunch to figure out what they have.Why that requires them to pull movies out and out them back in a different spot, I'm not sure.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Direct action > nonviolent protest, got it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was in a similar situation. It was the only time I got into a serious fight with my mom. The only difference was that I was an adult already, had around 1800 books, and sorted them by genre, author and series order.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't understand the logistics of possessing 1800 books. That is so many books. Did you live in a library?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

My parents have between 1,000 and 3,000 books.. Even they aren't sure.

Last time they were neatly arranged I was a child.

Right now they have 3 floor-to-ceiling bookshelves stacked as densely as possible, 3 books deep, with as many stacked In and laying on top as can fit Ina rectangle 10ft tall, 4ft wide, and 18ish inches deep.

Plus a handful of waist high shelves, multiple moving boxes filled up that haven't been emptied since they moved in2017 and a ton scattered all over the house..

They have more fantasy/Sci fi books than every library in a 50 mile radius combined.

I still have less than 30 books to my name since most of mine are digital, but I've been going to half price books looking to get physical copies of everything.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One side of my bedroom wall was a built-in bookshelf. We're talking about 4m in length and 2m in height. Some shelves had double-stacked books.

But you are right; the logistics are nearly impossible. I moved out of my parents' house in the mid-90s, but they still keep most of my books there for me. I have my own house and family now, but my wife threatened divorce if I "cluttered" our house with all the books. My hope lies in my kids inheriting my love for reading and bringing over my books themselves.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

my wife threatened divorce if I "cluttered" our house with all the books.

Storms, that would drive me nuts. Then again, I don’t have 1800 books. 😅