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[–] [email protected] 141 points 1 year ago (24 children)

The idea of “soulmates” or “the one and only” is inherently dangerous because it threatens the honesty of a relationship at a fundamental level. And what’s more important to a relationship than honesty?

[–] [email protected] 66 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.

Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren't gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I only date other bi switches.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm guessing you're in Canada based on your instance so I doubt it would go anywhere. If you're in the Bay Area I'd grab a beer/ slice.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't consume alcohol or intelligent creatures, but if you're ever in Waterloo, we can have sex.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You've confused switch for versatile but I'll fight you off for a while.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm all of it.

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