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What are some constructive stereotypes? (lemmy.cafe)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Usually we discuss stereotypes in terms of how they are harmful—which is good because it’s super important to recognize and confront the stereotypes that perpetuate systems of oppression and hurt. That doesn’t mean all of them are harmful, though. Some are neutral and and some are a net positive. If you can think of neutral ones that’s fine but I’m especially interested in the constructive and beneficial ones. Hopefully I’m explaining this well enough but if it becomes clear I didn’t I’ll delete this post.

Example: I usually encourage people, especially kids and pedestrians, to assume that drivers can’t see you. While it’s not necessarily true even a majority of the time, it’s nevertheless a constructive stereotype to hold in terms of road safety.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Big feet, big weiner.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i’d need evidence to call this valid, how has this shown itself to be constructive in your experience ?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

People can typically see your feet at any given time. However they usually won't see your weiner until they've consented to sexy time. So they might assume up front that you have a big weiner, and want to have the sexy time. And then you disappoint them and yourself later. But: had sex.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

hmm