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What are some good ways to find musician friends? (lemmy.autism.place)

submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I play guitar and drums. I want to find friends to play with, but I'm not connected into any music circles. Currently, my social circle is only salsa and bachata dancers. Any ideas how I can find others?

ps - I'm pretty socially anxious and autistic, so making friends takes me extra effort and time.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

From my experience in music, drummers are always in demand

I didn’t want to edit my post again so I’m posting it here:

OP, if you’re socially anxious at those local shows and don’t know what to talk about – tell them you play drums and are looking for people to play with The quote I’m replying to is 100% accurate.