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Do you avoid discussing some topics online even if you have something you'd like to say about them? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I've been doing this for some time now. Even if it's something that I consider important.

I just don't see the value in participating in a discussion that I have seen countless times already where the same points and arguments happen over and over again. One that I know wilI turn ugly. It's exhausting and I've decided to just opt-out.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I do appreciate posts like those.

My objective when I look through a comment thread, especially in a topic I don't know much about, I'm looking for the well reasoned posts. I admit I'm a human (confirmed via captchas) and love to have my opinions validated, but I also like to read a different take on a situation or issue. And because I am not in a situation where I don't feel like I have to defend my opinion I'm more open to seeing a different perspective.

So thank you for taking the time to write those out - and to others that do that thank you as well.