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Do you ever feel nostalgia for a type of sadness? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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It's strange but listening again to music from about 20 years ago, during a time when I was mostly sad and depressed, and where the musical choices reflected that, gives me a weird sense of nostalgia and longing for that time.

I know it's not unusual for music to do that, that's just run of the mill, it's just odd that, it has me longing for a time and associated mood that, on the whole, I kind of didn't really enjoy very much. The angsty tracks were what I listened to because I was so bummed out and dissatisfied.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Nostalgia more often than not feels melancholy to me, in general. I'm not a fan, so I try not to dwell on the past, but instead plan my future.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I love the feeling of melancholy, I don't know why. Accepting it feels kind of powerful. I have a huge thing for movies with melancholic endings.

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