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What happened to all the baddies you knew growing up? (lemm.ee)

submitted 7 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I don't know if this is something people say in other countries, but in my country, there's this common cliché or "wisdom" where adults will assure you that the people who picked on you in environments like school will universally develop lives of hardship later on, one way or another getting into mayhem.

I asked my mother one day what happened to all those people growing up. I can sense she may have been sugar coating it, but she said something along the lines of "well, I waited, and waited, and waited, and waited, and waited, and became a teacher, and waited some more, and finally watched as my bullies had to go into retirement five years late, yay" (okay, not really like that, but it might as well have been).

Yeah, common theme in my experience that what we hope for is never "that" set in stone. No matter where in the community (or even long-distance communicating) you knew them from, based on life, how much approximate correspondence do you associate with that mindset in the first paragraph?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Of anything big?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Their own companies as entrepreneurs xd. Meanwhile, I became a slave engineer

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

If you're in America, not only are small business loans often forgiven if the business fails, but failing as "CEO" is generally seem more positively on a resume than succeeding as an employee.

Just saying, only you know your circumstances, but it's probably a more viable option than you think.