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Pim Tool likes to rant about online dating, but the reality is that there are dudes that can only date this way.

The thing that concerns me though is that eventually more people are going to identify as "awkward" and will refuse to go on dates with anyone they meed IRL and feel like everyone should only contact them online. We already see this with irrational fears of talking on the phone where millennials and zoomers insist on communicating exclusively through texts.

It's very superficial and any of the girls who are remotely attractive get tons of messages, plus they have to be on edge for anything out of the ordinary.

The one thing I'll conceed to Pim Tool about online dating is that it can easily funnel all women to the top value men. That said, the most desirable men are going to exclude the unattractive women. Based on observing other people dating online, it seems like younger girls who are unattractive are aware that they can get older dudes who are probably desperate.

If you want to save stuff like that, it's good to save it because sites disappear. There are also a lot of weird "privacy" obsessive people who have a bizarre fixation of wanting accounts to be "deleted" if they don't sign in for a certain amount of time, and some sites are starting to give in to them.

Check for emails in both of your accounts and you might be able to find the text of it there.

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Yeah. You need to give the message that you actually read their information and you're not just trying randomly to score.

Restricting AI would require surveillance on every computer all the time.

When people find a partner, the dating service stops making money from them.

I agree. My sister and I both found our partners through online dating. I never found a decent partner until I completely changed by strategy, so yes, a lot of people are bad at it. Conversely to don't say "hey," don't send massive walls of text with your entire biography either.

There are some people that online dating works better for. My sister is a trans lesbian in a conservative state and is only attracted to cis women. It's not going to be easy for her to just go out and date.

If you're a lesbian, stay away from any services that allow searching for "friends." My sister was very upfront about being a lesbian with a penis and she still got tons of messages from creepy dudes

Yep. As dangerous as that could be, it's better then centralizing it. There are already systems like GPT4all that come with good models that are slower then things like Chat GPT but work similarly well.