This is where I've landed too.
- self hosting is dead simple.
- so no syncing to be done across devices.
- posts are saved as plain text files (in markdown).
- so you can do what you need with them.
- supports multi users, SSO, cloudflare R2 for storage if you need those things.
I used logseq for about 6 months before I found Memos. LS was just always getting in my way. Memos just works, for me.