XaiwahBlue

joined 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

It will do discord? That's amazing, I will have to look back into it. Discord has been awful for a while, but getting people to switch is impossible. 😩

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (8 children)

I haven't thought of those apps for years, I used Pidgin! I had to look up the program name.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Is that question really "in good-faith" to "that law doesn't apply in my country"?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

That giving of yourself and being discerning, you could make sure to find balanced relationships.

People lie, to you and to themselves. Everyone wants to say they're going to be their best person when times are tough. Reality can be quite different when the pain kicks in or dynamics change.

But at this point after countless emergencies while being the one to stand up in the end to carry the sisyphean boulders, the truth is people are going to stand back in a panic when shit hits the fan and I'm going to be the one to figure things out.

Best compromise I have settled on is surrounding myself with people who will help when I ask. It's up to me to ask, plan, and keep all our heads above water, which is exausting, but they won't blow me off.

It's the best I have been able to find of the available optional combination of traits in people i find attractive. 🙃

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

I've been pretty lazy about changing stores since they had the easiest pick up i had found in my area, but i guess this is the ass kick i need to make sure i never go back.

Sucks they own almost all the groceries in my area. But i can trust that it's not a monopoly, right?

Groceries prices deeeeefinately aren't inflated. Nope. All good here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Does he currently get money if you use JavaScript like the Brave CEO gets for his products?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

On mobile it's the three dots then the install button that has an image of a cellphone?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I would think you'd understand needing to stop and fight for justice is a little more youthful than moving on, not putting a stake in something that's really objectively a waste of your time and energy vs organizing your own space that accomplishes what you want?

Or is it easier to white knight and try and demand other spaces cater to you specifically?

Explicitly you were upset you were properly moderated, then grew indignant. The internet doesn't exist to make you comfortable, especially in your errors. Now, at this point, you're just kind of the stereotype "takes online so seriously they're the other side of the troll horseshoe" because i don't think you would grandstand so hard in a public space about being told you made a mistake.

Of course, maybe you would and have lived a privileged life where everyone always bent to you, and that's another situation entirely. Being uncomfortable for the first time can be upsetting, and tbe internet does allow you to rant in ways i don't think you would in a real dynamic with people you saw as real and equals in their own space that you entered voluntarily.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Do you typical get defensive when you make mistakes and people correct you or do you find this particularly hard not to feel like your ego was attacked?

The people here do like to be snarky, but welcome to the internet? Especially when someone makes themselves an amazing target by sulking or pouting. Kids always love to pick on the kid with no emotional regulation, and humans dont change much from childhood.

Lemmy is a little hard to understand at first and I am sure plenty of people get embarrassed, but do you ever find you catch a lot of flies with that vinegar or does it just make you feel better to act out?