Easy peasy. Don't want to be captured by surveillance cameras? You are free to not go where the cameras are.
Oh, are you not wealthy? Do you not have land? Do you not have access to food, power, other resources without venturing out to where these cameras are? Get more money and stop whining, you dirty poor.
This is why my infatuation with libertarianism that most teens seem to go through only lasted a week.
I don't have trouble explaining. I keep it high level and generic because 99 times out of 100, people are just making small talk and want to know just enough about you to categorize you.
I like the various mythologies for psychopomps; Anubis, Charon, grim reapers, Azrael, Vanth, valkyries, etc.
Figure out how to make and keep friends. It only gets more difficult as people are out of school, have their own families, have less time for short-notice adventures, etc.
At the same time, figure out what you want in a friend that is worth investing in to you. Not every friend is worth keeping as we all naturally grow in different directions.
Same. I have very cautiously taken some recommendations from my brother and liked them. But for every one I liked, there were 100 I didn't and the online weirdos who got way too intense about them.
State College in the late 00s. For sure we stayed up late, solving the world's problems (theoretically) as only young, not-yet-jaded people can. There were also people who couldn't go three days without getting blackout drunk and I tended not to be good friends with them due to lack of common interests.
I also didn't meet a single Jewish person until after I graduated college, there just isn't much of a Jewish population where I grew up, so I'm deeply skeptical of that theory.
So most people being allegedly cancelled are batshit or racist? ... Why is cancelling bad then?
There's few cases of non batshit, non racist ppl being cancelled. The best example you could think of, you acknowledge wasn't actually cancelling.
I'm not getting it.
You've expressed no reason to change, so yes, stay the same until there's a reason to spend millions of dollars and upend established systems.
So he wasn't cancelled. Some people were critical of how he said some things. That's the way people work.
I could post "the best spaghetti sauce recipe" and I would get people telling me I'm an idiot and wrong about Italian culture and blah blah blah. That's not cancellation. Any opinion, no matter how benign, gets crap on the internet.
Those details are unnecessary for this conversation. Cops used Facebook private messages to build a case to prosecute an illegal abortion.
They have established the process and the precedent, next time it will be a woman only 5 months pregnant. Or who has an ectopic pregnancy and is past six weeks. Or was raped. Or isn't in a financial situation suitable for raising a child. Or simply doesn't want a child. It doesn't matter the details, cops have and will use private messages to prosecute women getting abortions.
The arguments that "because of her one comment about wanting to wear jeans again means she was just a careless, shallow woman who didn't want to take responsibility for her actions and got what she deserved" is a load of crap. Not saying you are doing that solely, but that is not a good argument for not caring about privacy.
Woman, not girl. I'm an adult and expect to be treated as such.
I feel no pressure to respond to aggression with physical violence. I recently sat through two friends (men) talking about how they feel too old to fight but if a strange guy were to roll up to them under certain conditions, they would have "no choice" but to physically fight them. I have never felt the need to physically fight a woman who disagreed with me. I would consider it a win and a good reflection on me if I could deescalate or remove myself from the situation.
Most other things I can think of are a double edged sword. Like being seen as a "girl" instead of a fully functioning, self-sufficient woman is usually a negative, but I can twist it in my favor to avoid things sometimes. I see other people commenting about women being able to interact with children without being seen as a potential pedophile, but that only comes because society expects women to do all the child-carrying.