I try not to use any of those words, but it is hard as they are so prevalent in society, even in my progressive and inclusive circle.
I decided a while ago to substitute all those with the word "Turnip" - as in the vegetable. I doubt anyone could be genuinely offended by that and it sounds good when said - Don't be a Turnip! try it out, its a fun word to use and people seem to be tickled by it.
Oh wow, I never thought I'd see cycling here! Sorry, I have no answer but would also love to know.
Anywhere that has any of the major racing available would.also be greatly appreciated ♥️