Should you moderate like a bot? No.
I'm human, your human, the community is made up of humans. Act like a reasonable human, and yes, you get to define what is reasonable.
If bots could mod, we would just have them mod, but that would suck.
In terms of rule bending, if it's in good faith then let it go. If you want to remind someone, that's fine.
If Notepad is getting AI text editing then it's as good as dead too.