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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Some yes, some no. I've had a lot of short relationships, and only one long one.

If you're in a relationship with an abusive person, a person who is barely interested in you, or a person who always takes and rarely gives, then you have to break up. Unfortunately, many people will go through such relationships in their life.

Don't throw away your own life to find love. If you are playing the game while desperate, you may get taken advantage of. It may be better not to play. It's ok to be single.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The easiest way to disable unnecessary services is to uninstall them with aptitude, or whichever package manager you like. Try terminating services one by one, and see if anything bad happens. If nothing bad happens, you can probably uninstall it. On the other hand, if the system does get wonky a reboot should fix it. Or, you can research the services by name and decide whether to uninstall them. (avahi-daemon for example is a good idea to uninstall.)

To make the GUI not run, uninstall your display manager (gdm, xdm, nodm, or whatever) and uninstall your xorg server or wayland server. There may be GUI programs remaining after that, but they will only be consuming disk space, not RAM or CPU.

If the battery is old and holds little charge, you may save a few watts by removing it and throwing it away, instead of letting the system keep it topped off.

Get a power meter, such as a Kill-a-watt device. Then, experiment with different settings. If it's consuming less than 30 watts, you're probably fine. If you live in the US, one watt-year is about one US dollar (or a little more), so for every watt it consumes, that's about how much you will pay per year for its electricity.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

That first part is eerily similar to what I was about to post.

In 2011, I was a lonely introvert. I spent my time binging TV shows and reading.

In 2012, on an IRL meetup thread on the 4chan x (paranormal stories) board, I met a new friend. I think deciding to meet them was the critical moment. They introduced me to a local arts and crafts club, a certain sci-fi fandom, and Minecraft.

The arts and crafts club became the basis of a friend group that is still my main friend group today. They brought me to a local convention in 2013 where I discovered I was trans.

In that sci-fi fandom, at a 2016 convention, I met my current partner, and a bunch of new friends.

I played a lot of Minecraft from 2012 to 2016, but then my partner in 2016 introduced me to Factorio.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

draw .io is closed source.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

This is condescending and completely unhelpful.

[–] [email protected] 62 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Downloading any retail or food company's app is a bad idea. It will violate your privacy, and give you little to no benefits.

I really hate when companies demand that you sign in to their website to communicate with them, when they could have just used email. Especially if they refer to their proprietary website as "email" when it clearly isn't, and especially when it's an app instead of a website.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (5 children)

How did you get into TSA Pre without providing fingerprints? I tried once, and they strictly refused to let me apply because I wouldn't give fingerprints.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Yeah, it's definitely a problem, and genetic information could end up getting linked. Even if a person thinks they might not have DNA in any existing database, whether criminal, medical, or otherwise, there's no telling what might happen in the future. I can think of a few different ways a person might involuntarily, through no fault of theirs, get their DNA forcibly taken with no legal recourse.

Every path here will have some tradeoffs. But the odds of getting linked are probably much lower outside your home country.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I voted you down because HIPAA absolutely does include privacy provisions, and requires written consent for data use in the way I described above.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (8 children)

My best recommendation would be to go to a testing lab and provide a fake name. It should work. I've never been ID'd at any doctor's office, and one time did even receive healthcare under a fake name with no trouble. Of course, that means your insurance won't cover anything, but that's the unfortunate reality of US healthcare. Also, they probably won't delete your data. HIPAA includes no right to be forgotten, and in some cases, may even mandate retention for several years.

Sorry I don't have a better solution. I think your best bet is to distance this genetic data as much as possible from your real identity.

Alternately, you could try going somewhere outside the US.

I completely agree that HIPAA is dead. One time when I went to a new doctor's office, totally unaffiliated with any doctor I'd ever seen before, the doctor instantly pulled all my medical records from several other places. They didn't even get my verbal permission; they just did it. If that's the level of security on these databases, and doctors are allowed to access them on old unsupported Windows computers, then it's almost certain that the databases have tons of undetected data breaches. They've probably been scraped completely by multiple attackers.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I have three ideas: First, you could switch the desktop environment to one of the ones that has a GUI settings tool to set passwordless automatic sign in. I think Gnome 3 on Ubuntu, and Mate Desktop on Linux Mint have that feature. There are probably others.

Second, you could switch your display manager to "nodm". The display manager is the thing that runs the X server or Wayland, and it starts the greeter (the greeter is the program that shows the login screen). nodm is a special display manager that doesn't use a greeter or ask for a password. It immediately starts the session using the username and desktop environment specified in its configuration file.

I use nodm for my HTPC and it works very well. The only downside is that you have to edit its configuration file, /etc/default/nodm , using a text editor. I'm not aware of any GUI configuration tool for it. However, it's pretty easy to configure.

Third, you could abandon all display managers, and start the session manually, either from a shell script, or over SSH. This is a little more complex. You will probably want to get comfortable with SSH before trying this (SSH is the command-line analog of remote desktop).

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