LadyAutumn

I'd say "I'm sorry your relatives died. I only got this phone so I could get a job and an apartment, both of which I require a cell phone to acquire in the modern world. All modern life is being tied directly to cellular devices and I have been coerced by capitalism and the government into getting one. Not having one means a significant portion of modern society is inaccessible to me. I wouldn't have one if it was reasonably avoidable."

Whats your comparable justification for masturbating to a woman being sexually abused?

This is what we mean when we say we live in a society that justifies sexual abuse against women. Its seen as an unfortunate side effect of men having sexuality. Youre acting like watching a woman being raped and whipping out your cock to get off to it is a reasonable thing to do, and like the viewer is totally casually disconnected from what they're viewing. Have you ever wondered why so many women would be raped in the porn industry? Tell me, why is the porn industry full of sexual coercion and rape? Is this natural in some way? Is it natural for men to want to witness rape, to be fine witnessing rape, or to see accidentally getting off to rape as equivalent to "eating an unethically sourced chocolate" or "using a cell phone that was made of unethically sourced parts"?

The difference is I have a cell phone for a reason other than abusing workers. I eat chocolate because it tastes good, not because witnessing workers being abused brings me pleasure. Does it bring you pleasure to witness women being raped? Is masturbating to women being sexually abused an acceptable consequence of consuming pornography to you?

Okay, so now you know that a non zero amount of porn you consume is made by sexually abusing women. Are you going to certify that anything else you consume is safely and ethically produced in a non-coercive manner by participants who are consenting and capable of withdrawing that consent? Are you going to make sure you only consume ethical porn? Are the rest of the people in this thread? Are they going to continue to consume pornography the same way they have been, with little regard for how its made and by whom and the circumstances of the actors being filmed?

If your answer is "yes I am going to take steps to ensure the only porn I consume is ethical", then good. I hope you're able to understand why the very existence and tolerance of this industry and this content is absolutely horrifying to me.

Its not impossible to research the porn you consume to ensure that you're not getting off to someone being sexually abused or raped.

My cell phone is something I require to access society. I cannot work without one, I cannot be a functional adult in society without one. I go every day without masturbating to women being sexually abused, and there is no reason whatsoever someone has to do that. It's not the same at all, and its telling that men see "Please stop masturbating knowingly to women being raped" and immediately compare doing that with unethical consumption in general. It's not comparable. I'm sorry, there really is nothing comparable to sexually pleasing yourself to a video of a woman being sexually abused. It makes me literally sick to my stomach that so many men are clearly totally fine with doing that.

You know, as a rape survivor myself, I have to say that no wearing clothes and using a cell phone to access society are not comparable to masturbating knowingly to women being raped. Rape is not equatable with unethically using a cell phone that I require to exist in society at all. Again, you can just not masturabate to unethical porn. You do not have to do that. I go every day without doing that. You're defending knowingly masturbating to rape. To a woman being raped. No, no, no I'm sorry if you're not willing to stop doing that then there is no possible middle ground that exists here.

I will bash the dude knowingly consuming porn when he is aware that a non zero amount of is literally rape. I will also bash the rapists making it. Consuming porn isn't like wearing clothes, or eating food. You do not need to consume unethical pornography.

You still haven't responded to any of what I actually said.

How often does that term come up in an industry widely known for raping men and full of other references to children such as "barely legal" "just turned 18" "jailbait" and so on? Tell me, is there a pattern in society of men being equated with children by people who disproportionately control the government and all levels of corporate and private society, combined with a long history of matriarchal thought that disenfranchises men of their rights?

Again, no. Not even close. You clearly didn't even read what I wrote, you read the first sentence thought "ha theres one example of women using boy in a sexual context, so that totally invalidates whatever nonsense she said in the rest of her comment". Lazy, tired, and the same dismissal of women's voices that always happens whenever this subject comes up.

So you're fine with the fact that you've almost certainly, essentially guaranteed to have, masturbated to a woman being raped? What the living fuck is wrong with you?