LadyAutumn

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Again, I'm not cumming over the child labor that made my phone. Whenever you inadvertently jerk off to porn that depicts sexual abuse you are deriving sexual pleasure from watching someone be raped. There is no comparison here that is adequate. That is what you are doing. Besides literally in person jacking off to a woman being raped in front of you, there is no adequate comparison.

Sexual imagery has been around forever and I am not attacking sexual imagery. I am saying that jacking off to a drawing has a 0 percent chance of being a video recording of an actual real woman being raped.

No matter how you slice it you have to be okay with the chance that you're doing that to watch porn. On some level every person who watches it has accepted that, or else they don't even think about whether or not what they're watching is consensual. I couldn't tell you which is worse here.

Its not some hypothetical either if you've consumed porn regularly for years then you've pretty well definitely done that at some point. The mere thought that I could be witnessing that kills any and all desire to engage with it, and I would say it should for anyone. The fact that it doesn't means, as I said, a form of acceptance that you may be doing that. Which isn't okay like its not okay to do that.

There may be slight evidence that porn mitigates some kinds of violent offenses, but not nearly as much as having an egalitarian society that instills the concept of consent from birth in all people would.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I still take great issue with the equivalence of deriving sexual pleasure from watching women being sexually abused, inadvertently or not, and me using a cell phone. As I've said elsewhere in this thread, my cell phone I own to access society. It serves a purpose beyond child labor. I'm not deriving sexual pleasure from watching child labor or unethical companies operating. In the case of watching porn of a woman being raped and masturbating to it, the rape is the commodity you're consuming. The rape is the thing that you're getting off to.

So, if we are openly aware that these videos exist and that you will come across them while masturbating to porn - then you have accepted that you will masturbate to a woman being raped. It is acceptable that that happens so that you can continue to masturbate to porn. You do not have to watch porn. Porn has only existed for the last 130 years based on our present knowledge of early works. That means that only for the last 130 years have sex acts being performed on women been recorded, and thusly only for the last 130 years has deriving pleasure from a woman being raped in a video format been a possibility. The entirety of human history this has not existed and we have all gotten off just fine, many people continue to get off just fine today no porn involved. Watching porn is a choice, it is a want and not a need. You have to accept that you will get off to sexual abuse at some point in order to continue to consume it. That shouldn't be acceptable to anyone who has any actual empathy for women. In essence the least that someone could say is they will go as far out of their way as possible to only consume content they are absolutely certain is not depicting sexual abuse. If you're not researching the actors you watch, the studio that produced it, the film crew that worked on it, then you're openly accepting that youre going to get off to porn depicting sexual abuse and that it's okay for that to happen and not worth going to every length possible to ensure it doesn't.

It's just telling again and again that men see "inadvertently masturbating to a woman being raped" as equivalent in some manner to "using a cell phone who's resources were gathered unethically". And somehow the nuance that owning a cell phone for other reasons is not the same as consuming rape porn. It isn't, no matter how hard you try to frame it that way it isn't and never will be. Just to reiterate, so that we hopefully don't go in circles on the same point again, in the example of the cell phone the child labor or unethical business practices is not what I am consuming. In the example of accidentally getting off to a woman being raped the rape itself is what is being consumed, a direct video of that sexual abuse is the commodity that is being consumed.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Gonna copy paste another comment and then I'm done. Have fun being a misogynist.

S9+. Not that it matters, as again I do not have a phone because I derive pleasure from watching child labor. Watching porn of a woman being sexually abused and getting off to it is getting pleasure from a woman being sexually abused, like you are cumming watching a woman being raped. The rape is the commodity you're consuming. It's the content, it's how you're consuming it and its why you're consuming it. the child labor is not the cell phone. The cell phone exists for reasons beyond child labor. The porn is of a woman being raped. Thats it. Start to end its rape. not all of it, but a portion of it is. And so you have to be okay with that you have to be fine with getting off to rape. If that wasn't fine with you, you would refuse to consume it. Again, nothing in your life is impacted by choosing to get off to something else.

I've been making the same point for the last 2 hours and waiting for you to either acknowledge that you're cool with the chance of you getting off to women being sexually abused.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

By alienating misogynists? I as a woman should be willing to partake in a movement with misogynists in it? No, and I don't have to either.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Yeah, you said you'd do your best to ensure the porn you watch is ethical. I question what lengths you'd be willing to go to so that you're certain of that, but I'll take that you're willing to admit some work is owed on the part of men consuming porn to ensure that what they're consuming is ethical.

Do I think that its entirely possible to ever be 100% sure? No, and I will always avoid it for the rest of my life. So much as witnessing it feels inherently wrong, as I do not know the circumstances under which it is filmed. I implore people to do the same, but saying that you'll go out of your way to try and be sure that your not consuming sexual abuse materials is at least acknowledging that its not acceptable to you.

Think about it next time you're watching a video. Don't berate yourself but imagine the circumstances it was filmed other, whether that woman feels safe and feels like she can safely withdraw consent. Be empathetic to her, see her as an actual person and not a commodity being distributed. And follow through, you say you'll try and vet the content you consume - actually do that. And when women talk about how porn affects them, how it affects their relationships their careers and the way they're treated and viewed by society - listen. If you don't hate us then you should consider our perspectives and our experiences with an industry that affects us uniquely in a way it doesn't equally affect men.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, I do not see "gets off to women being raped" as an evil but excusable action equivalent with eating nestle chocolate.

I don't mind holding men accountable for getting off to the sexual abuse of women. If that alienates them then good, I'm not pandering to misogynists.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

Right. Like porn.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

No, I don't. Because getting off to rape is different from having a cell phone.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

S9+. Not that it matters, as again I do not have a phone because I derive pleasure from watching child labor. Watching porn of a woman being sexually abused and getting off to it is getting pleasure from a woman being sexually abused, like you are cumming watching a woman being raped. The rape is the commodity you're consuming. It's the content, it's how you're consuming it and its why you're consuming it. the child labor is not the cell phone. The cell phone exists for reasons beyond child labor. The porn is of a woman being raped. Thats it. Start to end its rape. not all of it, but a portion of it is. And so you have to be okay with that you have to be fine with getting off to rape. If that wasn't fine with you, you would refuse to consume it. Again, nothing in your life is impacted by choosing to get off to something else.

I've been making the same point for the last 2 hours and waiting for you to either acknowledge that you're cool with the chance of you getting off to women being sexually abused.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think that choosing to watch porn, knowing that part of what you're consuming is women being sexually abused could be described as evil yes.

I also agree that capitalism makes truly ethical consumption nearly or totally impossible. But its not comparable to busting a nut to women being sexually abused. I'm sorry, it isn't. No matter what way you frame that I will never agree that its even related to the topic of capital. You do not, again, DO NOT have to watch porn.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I dont agree that you're trying your best. So long as you're coming to the table saying "I need to watch porn, and if I get off to a women being sexually abused then whatever it happens" I can't agree that you're making what I would consider to be a reasonable effort. The least you could do is, like I said before, make every effort possible to vet whatever pornographic content you consume. So that you are as certain as you possibly can be that what you're watching isn't sexual abuse.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But you still will watch porn, knowing that you're almoat definitely watching women being sexually abused at some point?

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